My girlfriend says she wants a 3 week break, is she tired of me?

Question

I am in the U.S and my girlfriend is in Canada. We have been dating for about 11 months. I really do love her, but i'm not sure she real loves me although she says she does sometimes. I resently heard she was fulling arround with another guy, i asked her about it and she said there is nothing going on between them....But now she is angry with me because she feels i'm telling my cousin to ask her whats going on with both of us...She says she wants a three week break and that we will know after the three weeks if we will still be together. I really love this girl. What should i do? Do i call her and tell her how i feel or let her be for three weeks?

Answer 1

Sounds like its the end of the road for you. If I were you I'd back off and let her have the 3 weeks undisturbed or its a guarantee you will lose her. If she does come back you should talk to her and find out what it is that bothers her so you can work on it.

Answer 2

The take a break thing is NOT GOOD

Thats a way of saying that the other want freedom to date around so he or she can see what else is out there.

She wants to date this other guy and maybe others, but u really shouldn't expect that she's telling the truth about it's nothing bewteen her and the other guy.

She got mad with u because thats an excuse to say she wanted a break. Plus u two live so far apart it may be best that u find a local girlfriend who wants u and will not ask for a 3 week break.

And why 3 weeks? Is that how long this other guy is gonna be in town?

U should tell her that u don't need to wait for her to break ur heart in 3 wks how about we just break up now.

U call it off b 4 she does because she's only doing this so she can get to know this guy to see if it will workout. She's not worth it

Answer 3

she wants the three weeks to see the other guy, to see if it is what she wants. she doesn't want to be confronted about anything, she hasn't made her mind up. i would back off and not contact her, nothing u say is going to matter at this point, got to let it play out, and got to let her be free to leave if she wants to, acting anxious, or begging for an answar will get u no respect, sometimes absence makes the heart grow fonder, let her contact u, if she doesn't than it would be safe to assume she is with the other guy.

Answer 4

Dude, forget about her. If she wants a three week break then it is over. I don't want to be mean but it's true, do your self a favor and find yourself a piece of *** closer to home, and I hate to say it but most cheating rumors are true.

So grow a sack and dump her first and go find a couple of easy chicks to take her off your mind.

Answer 5

i hate to say it but i feel like u are better off without her. i mean three weeks is like a month and why does she need this time. long distance relationships work out but if both are willing which does not seem the case so u are better off without. the decsion is yours

Answer 6

when a girl says that...she is seeing someone else...and if in three weeks it doesn't work out with this guy....she will come back to you, until she finds someone else for another 3 weeks....get out while you can

Answer 7

I will give you this advise the same thing happen to me last year at this time. Get out of it. Now save yourself some heart ache. It over

Answer 8

She's found someone else. She's letting you down easy. Get the upper hand. Dump her.

Answer 9

shes probably cheating on you, get rid of her and get a new one, if she wants a break that means she wants to "do something" with another guy.

Answer 10

let her go,she wants to figure out what she wants,you or the other guy who probably is closer.