How to stop from falling too fast?

Question

I don't understand it but I have a bad habit of falling too fast for a guy. I'm not a weird needy person, but when I like someone I really like them - how can I stop this because it only seems to get me into trouble!

Answer 1

Make a point of taking things slow. Don't talk to them every single day, make dates a couple times a week, go OUT instead of to each other's house, don't get physical until you really get to know their personality. There's a huge difference between "falling" for someone, and actually "liking" them... you can have both when you take the time & patience to get to know each other :)

Answer 2

Its SO good to find you, your just like me!
I always fall for a guy really hard and end up liking him for such a long time!

As far as i'm concerned it doesnt really bother me, it makes me want to go school, or want to go do this or that, and i'm always excited, untill something majorly bad happens and like ruins my week b/c of him. But just try not thinking about him , or sometimes i even think of how i'm not good enough for him when really i am, and that can work too :]]

But now that i look back liking those guys for such a long time made everything great, all those memories from last years and good times, just make my life! :]]

Answer 3

I used to be that way, but eventually experience took care of that. I would fall to fast and get hurt. Then I started to get jaded. Then I got real. I think that's how it goes for most people.

Answer 4

you are not the only one i have the same problem :( its hard i know i just keep telling myself take babysteps and that i need sumwhere to start off and not jump to things i know it snot much but i tried

Answer 5

for me it was the heartache and not wanting to feel that way all the time

Answer 6

grab a railing or something as you are going down.