do u regret losing ur virginity when u did, if so why?
2006-11-11 12:39:27 · 24 answers · asked by amber h 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
I was 16 when I lost my virginity and now that I am older (33) I do have to say I regret it. It is something I didnt give to someone that I loved or to someone who loved me. I dont know why we are in such a hurry as girls to lose our virginity for. I know that after I lost mine I wound up in countless relationships that always was based on sex. My advice is to just wait until you are definately in love, and yes, I do believe waiting for marriage is a good idea especially since teenage love normally does not last.
2006-11-11 12:43:39 · answer #1 · answered by baby_luvx3 3 · 3⤊ 0⤋
I did regret losing my virginity the way I did. I was totally in love with the guy, but after we had sex the first time he freaked out and told me that "wasn't supposed to happen" and left in a hurry. Later when I phoned him he said that he had been planning to save himself for marriage and that I had "forced" him (which wasn't true). Needless to say I dumped him not long after that.
2006-11-11 20:42:44 · answer #2 · answered by Blue Jean 6 · 2⤊ 1⤋
14 and yes, I regretted it because I wasn't in love with him. Later when I actually fell in love, I wished I could have lost my virginity to him. Wait as long as possible to be sure that you want to do it. Never give in to pressure from the guy. If he loves and respects you, he'll wait. But if you do give in, make sure he uses a condom.
2006-11-11 20:42:11 · answer #3 · answered by Dally4now2006 3 · 4⤊ 0⤋
No because my husband and I both lost it on our wedding night. Couldn't have been a better night! We are so glad that we waited. It makes sex more special, and it has brought us closer together than other couples who didn't wait. Waiting till marriage is something you'll never, ever regret!
2006-11-11 20:46:37 · answer #4 · answered by Snow 6 · 4⤊ 0⤋
No I didn't..But I was madly in love and this was so many years ago.When if u had sex u were a bad person.I tell everyone this.You really need to be with this person for at least 2 years before u do anything. This way u know pretty much for sure if he loves u as much as u love him.
2006-11-11 20:44:09 · answer #5 · answered by sweet_thing_kay04 6 · 2⤊ 1⤋
I regret losing it when I did.I was much too young and immature.That was many years ago and I wished I would have waited.
2006-11-11 20:42:19 · answer #6 · answered by Melissa C 5 · 4⤊ 0⤋
YES BECAUSE I WENT THRU A NUMBER OF GUYS BEFORE I FOUND THE RIGHT ONE AND NOW THAT IS THE ONLY REASON I REGRET WHAT I DONE CAUSE I CAN NEVER GET IT BACK TO OFFER IT TO HIM. TAKE CARE AND GOOD LUCK.
2006-11-11 20:43:08 · answer #7 · answered by sherryw_1978 3 · 4⤊ 0⤋
i did not loose my virginity i know exactly where it is and yes i do regret giving it away i wish i had waited till i was married but i still would have ended up with my man so its all good
2006-11-11 20:42:31 · answer #8 · answered by *Heather* 2 · 2⤊ 2⤋
i just recently lost mine n i dont feel like i regret it i do love him so much i think im happy to know that even if it doesnt work out between us it was making love when we were doing it not just ******* i know sum people can do it with whoever walks by.......but i think that to truely not regret it u should be in love
2006-11-11 20:43:57 · answer #9 · answered by Sara 1 · 2⤊ 1⤋
I recently lost mine. I do not regret it because I gave it to my boyfriend of 5 years and are due to be engaged soon (I just need to finish University). He means so much to me and he was worth it. I was ready.
2006-11-11 20:41:18 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 2⤊ 1⤋