True Story: I loved a girl. She rejected me. I said mean things. I was dumb and tried apologizing by email, and never got a response. She is far away, so in person is not an option. 2 Months have gone by. Dunno if she's even still mad. Do I say sorry? If so, phone or flower gram (or some other suggestion)? I don't expect she'll unreject me, I just want to make ammends for what I said.
2006-11-11 12:39:11 · 7 answers · asked by Wandering Star 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Apologize again- letting her know you are not trying to get back together, that you just feel sincerely sorry for what you said and that it was uncalled for etc. She may be worried that she'll have to do the rejecting bit again, and no one likes that!
2006-11-11 12:46:05 · answer #1 · answered by Down to earth 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
call her first, u said mean things because u were rejected and hurt, but know that u could be rejected again. just because u apologize and make ammends doesn't guarantee she will feel any differently about u, show her u are a changed person, and know it was wrong to say mean things. u will know by her response to u if there is a chance with her. if not than move on to someone else, and learn by this mistake. life is a constant learning process. good luck
2006-11-11 20:53:13 · answer #2 · answered by jude 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
perfect way is to plan a trip to where she stands. Next walk up to her door and bring a rose with you....when she opens the door give her the rose hug her kiss her and say sorry....if you live far she will have no other choice but to forgive you for the sacrifice you made...
2006-11-11 20:43:41 · answer #3 · answered by pretty_latin_baby 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Send her flowers!! With a little card saying you are really sincerely sorry and hope to be friends or something like that!
All the best! :)
2006-11-11 20:42:16 · answer #4 · answered by Danny J 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I suspect that she has moved on and you should also. If she rejected you and you said some dumb things afterwards....just let it go.
You need to just let it go. Peace.
2006-11-11 20:45:19 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
call her and just start off talking and then slid in to are we ok? and then if she is still upset say sorry but only if your really are and understand her.
2006-11-11 20:43:24 · answer #6 · answered by Sam 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
do your best to let her know that youre sorry........then move on and find someone else.........if you keep at it after that youre whats known as a stalker....
2006-11-11 20:44:27 · answer #7 · answered by SpinKick 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋