i was told that I'm handsome, cool, friendly and so on......but somehow I just don't have the confidence to ask girl out.....what's grow in me?
2006-11-11 12:35:55 · 12 answers · asked by nick 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
thanks ladies, i apreciate alot, well I should start jumping out of the building and give it my best shot, I promise I won't kill myself if the answer is no and I won't faint if the answer is yes
2006-11-11 12:46:00 · update #1
perhaps you're like me, you'd rather be in front of an audience than just be one on one with someone..it's somehow less scary.
to top it all off, you must have gotten hurt.
rejection is your worst fear, and I'm telling you the longer you wait to conquer this fear of either rejection or intimacy the bigger it gets...even though you try to reason yourself it just doesnt do the trick
GET OUT NOW!!!!! do it now, ask someone out now, while you still can!
2006-11-11 12:43:46 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
Nothing is wrong with u maybe ur just too shy and thats not a crime. All u have to do is kinda go with the flow when ur told ur ahndsome and ask the girl out, once u do this u keep doing it until u feel u have the confidence u want and the rest will fall into place.
The worst she could say is no and thats ok because in this big world we live in there are plenty of girls who will say " YES"
2006-11-11 20:41:45 · answer #2 · answered by itspink22@sbcglobal.net 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋
are you nervouse? by any chance or afraid of being embarrsed of being told no? just do it i know that isnt the best of advice but hey look at it this way when u do it could end up in a long tearm relationship maybe your soul mate or if they say no you know what person just isnt for you why be with sumone who doesnt want to be with you . . . and by the way when u ask a girl out n she says no we dont make fun of you or think n e thing of it . . at least all the girls i know . .just try it
2006-11-11 20:41:03 · answer #3 · answered by stolen kisses 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
What's grown with you? You mean wrong with you? Maybe this is it, LOL. No, maybe your just a shy guy. Don't worry about it. When the right gurl comes along you will have the confidence to ask her out, I am sure of it. In the mean time PRAY.
2006-11-11 20:40:06 · answer #4 · answered by monar_sharyn 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
You are probably scared of getting turned down. Have you heard the saying " nothing ventured nothing gained." You need to realize that nothing is going to happen unless you do something to make it happen. So ask her or some woman to go out.
2006-11-11 20:41:59 · answer #5 · answered by READER 1 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
there is nothing wrong with you...i know i am not a guy but a lot of guys are really nervous about asking a girl out....just relax...and get to know the girl first and it may make it easier to ask the girl out.
2006-11-11 20:39:07 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
sorry to tell you but you have the: I'm scard/shy to talk to a girl, don't worry your not the only one and it's treatable, start slow go out with someone (female friend) who knows you well and see how it goes
2006-11-11 20:39:11 · answer #7 · answered by Mimzy 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Nothing is wrong with you! You just have to strap on your balls and do what ya gotta do, and you'll get the girl!
2006-11-11 20:38:59 · answer #8 · answered by littlegoober75 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Maybe cause people praise you but you still don't feel like they are saying the truth.
2006-11-11 20:39:50 · answer #9 · answered by Teila 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
you were told you were handsome, cool, etc...
but u don't believe it yourself
2006-11-11 20:37:11 · answer #10 · answered by Luken 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋