I am a freshman at a High School and me and this girl are in the same French class(even though we both hate it) She is quiet and really nice. I want to ask here out but I really don't know how or where to go if she says yes. She also has another guy that she is really good friends with, but hopefully thier just that. Its really hard to catch her alone too. Any advice or suggestions? I need all the help I can get. :)
2006-11-11 12:15:42 · 19 answers · asked by T5i/Tom 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
First of all, make absolutely sure that there is nothing between her and that guy. When you are sure of this, wait for a moment when she really is alone. If you cant wait, then muster up your courage and ask to speak to her alone when she's with friends (preferably when that guy isnt there). She should say yes, unless she's totally rude. If she's hopelessly busy at the time, ask her at a better time. When you finally do catch her at a good time, ask her out to something simple, like hanging out at the mall or the park or going to a fast food restuarant together. In fact, invite her to go somewhere with friends, to make it less awkward (but u'll have to inform ur friends beforehand if u do this). Dont specify a specific date when you ask her...just say "sometime". This way, you'll know if she's just busy or she's not interested. If she says yes, then you can specify a date and time. Be sincere and dont use a cheesy pick up line. I'm sure she'll say yes, unless she's already involved w/ sum1. Then you go on the date and have a good time. Hopefully, she'll agree to a second one. If she does, go to somewhere a little more romantic, like a restuarant or going to a scary movie w/ no friends. Good luck! I wish I could even bring myself to ask somebody out, lol...
2006-11-11 12:43:38 · answer #1 · answered by fliptastic 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Have your phone number written down, pass it to her and ask for hers. Can you meet at, or pick her up for, a Friday night football game? Meet at the mall on Sunday afternoon for a movie? When you get talking ideas and ways will be worked out. Good Luck.
2006-11-11 20:23:52 · answer #2 · answered by lollipop 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋
I think you should write her a note because quiet girls usally look at more non verbal aspects of a person..and she might be shy too so its better not to aproach her untill you know how she feels. And youll be catching her alone also because she will be writting you a note with all her own words and no one to butt in.
SHE'LL LOVE IT
GoD bLeSs
2006-11-11 20:21:31 · answer #3 · answered by Alexis W 1 · 1⤊ 0⤋
send her a note in french and ask to meet privately at lunch or free periods or right after scholl at a certain spot. ask herand if she says yes u can take her anywhere...movie, park, ur house, pizza store, mall anywhere just enjoy each otheres presences
2006-11-11 20:18:10 · answer #4 · answered by lolypop 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
go up and ask her, can i talk to you alone. then ask her out when you are alone or write her a note and stick it in her locker.(assuming that you are in high school with lockers) then, if she says yes, take her somewhere fun like bowling or iceskating or take her to a movie. you will have tons of fun. good luck!
2006-11-11 20:19:04 · answer #5 · answered by bootiful_goddess0679 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Just casually say, "Hey, you doin' anything Friday night?"
Then you can go to the mall or the movies and get iced cream afterword.
P.S. You have to buy everything, It's considered courteous.
2006-11-11 20:23:16 · answer #6 · answered by emma 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Ask her to the movies, may be with another set of friends.
2006-11-11 20:18:03 · answer #7 · answered by vanityspice 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Of corse, you should ask her! And if you get rejected, just suck it up and drive on. I mean ca'mon your a freshman, and hey I am too, we have 4 more years of school ahead of us!
2006-11-11 20:21:06 · answer #8 · answered by My dad ate my homework 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Don't stress out about it. Just ask her if you'd like to go somewhere as friends and then take it from there.
2006-11-11 20:17:23 · answer #9 · answered by Amy 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
talk to her more and more each day get to know her alot more! dont rush in to anything. call her and take her out before you ask her out! when ever you know for sure that she likes you go get her killer! if she says no dont stop doing what you did
2006-11-11 20:28:28 · answer #10 · answered by shayne 1 · 1⤊ 0⤋