My boyfriend and I have been goin out a week and a half, but we have been talking about 3 weeks over the internet. He is very honest, open, and respectful cause hes in the military. Over 3 weeks we got to know absolutely everything about eachother online. we finally met and got along great. The 1st date we had oral sex. I know it was fast but I don't regret it. We feel very comfortable around eachother. Now hes telling me he loves me after a week. He also said he feels pretty comfortable about having sex but wanted to check w/ me cause he didn't want to pressure me.( I don't think he wants me just for sex cause he calls alot and were always talkin online.We have a long distance relationship and he always comes out to see me. Hes getting an apartment and wants me to live w/ him. is he really that into me? is he moving too fast? He is not a player at all and treats me great- should I tell him to slow down?
2006-11-11 12:13:27 · 13 answers · asked by princess 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
He is moving much too fast.
2006-11-11 12:16:08 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 2⤊ 0⤋
At least he is moving wayyy to fast. These military guys that are so called "respectful", dont judge a book by its cover. That is not always the case at all. Believe me... My girlfriends best friend went out with a guy from the NatonalGuard and went through amazing hoops to use her. He treated he so well all for the sex and all to throw her aside later on... Very sad story. Just please be careful.
2006-11-11 20:20:24 · answer #2 · answered by synapsediagram 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Well that's really up to you. Only you know how fast you want your relationships to go, therefore we can't answer your question that deeply. I do think that oral sex on the first date was a little quick however. If you think he's going too fast, talk to him & if he really feels the way he says he does, he'll understand completely. Word of caution:some1 who is quick to fall in luv is also sometiems quick to fall out of love. Good luck; he sounds like a good catch.
2006-11-11 20:19:33 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
It sounds like he's moving fast. Slow things down a little. Ask him why he thinks he loves you and does he know what REAL love is? Don't make the mistake of moving in with him and things start to change and then you'll get hurt. Take your time! If he loves you he'll respect your wanting to move slower. Don't get played for your body with his slick manuevers to get you in bed!
2006-11-11 20:19:09 · answer #4 · answered by justine t 1 · 1⤊ 0⤋
You need to know each other more. You don't get to know a person in three weeks. SLOW DOWN! good things happen to the ones that learn to wait. What's the rush???
2006-11-11 20:22:52 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
just politely tell him that you love him and care about him a lot and you want ot slow things down a bit.
2006-11-11 20:17:57 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
i can not argue with u that he is not only after sex.. b.c not all guys are like that .. but make sure that is what you want .. you do not want to ruina good relationship for something that can happen many times in ur life.. make sure he is that special person .. tell him that you want to be sure that you are ready... good luck
2006-11-11 20:17:21 · answer #7 · answered by allie 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
you better slow down, and put the brakes on this sex thing you call a relationship.Man you sound easy to get.
2006-11-11 20:17:11 · answer #8 · answered by shepardman1 4 · 3⤊ 0⤋
Only you can determine that. My advice would be, if you need to question it, then you aren't ready. You'll know when you're ready to go that far. It can never hurt to wait a while.
2006-11-11 20:16:44 · answer #9 · answered by Jess H 7 · 2⤊ 0⤋
honey, you don't have a clue. you can't know someone over the internet i don't care how many hours you spend online. he doesn't love you he loves the fact that you are easy. sorry to sound so cruel, but you asked.
2006-11-11 20:16:02 · answer #10 · answered by one hot mamma 5 · 2⤊ 1⤋