Well me and my boyfriend have been trying to go ALL the way for a while now and I just can't do it. I don't know whats wrong with me I've done it before once with a different guy and I didn't have any problems whats wrong with me!!!
2006-11-11 12:07:16 · 20 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Well I'm 17
2006-11-11 12:11:41 · update #1
Theres nothing wrong with you, your heart is being cautious and thats a good thing. You are being careful on this one, for every thing that happens there is a reason. You just are NOT ready for this guy yet, and like I said, THAT MAY be a good thing. Just follow your good common sense and your heart, that will always be the right thing to do. Good luck.
2006-11-11 12:12:23 · answer #1 · answered by tennman012000 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Nothing's wrong with you. I read your other questions, and I see that you are only 17. It's your mind's way (and your body as well) of telling you that you are not ready for this. Even though you have done it before with someone else, doesn't mean you were ready then, either. Maybe you were slightly pressured to do it before? Or you just wanted to make the guy happy? I don't know. But take this as a positive sign that you are a normal teenager. Sex should wait until you're married...that way, you will be doing that with someone you love, and you will be emotionally ready. Right now, try to focus on graduating, and going to college; stuff like that! You have plenty of time to have a good sex life with someone you truly love, enough to marry and call him your husband. Hope this helps. :)
2006-11-11 20:14:15 · answer #2 · answered by peachy78 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you are 17, you should rethink having sex.
Seventeen is very young to be dealing with the issues that sex brings up.
I would see a doctor and consult them.
I would strongly advise also talking with a counselor, such as an LCSW (licensed clinical social worker or PhD in Psychology) who is well versed in sexuality issues in teenagers.
Please, please see a doctor before you do anything else.
2006-11-11 20:10:45 · answer #3 · answered by doublewidemama 6 · 2⤊ 1⤋
May be you're just NOT ready with this guy. Do not force it otherwise you stand to have major regrets. Follow your heart; if your heart decides that it's time, you will not even have second thoughts about doing it with him. And if you never do, then may be you were not meant to sleep with him.
2006-11-11 20:10:56 · answer #4 · answered by vanityspice 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well, like everyone else has said, maybe ur not ready to do that with him, ur taking it slower and respecting urself, or maybe ur just too tense and having second thoughts about it, if ur not ready, then dont do it, if he loves u, he'll understand...
2006-11-11 20:15:11 · answer #5 · answered by *Chelsie* 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Perhaps you just aren't ready for that step.
Perhaps your boyfriend doesn't know how to arouse you so that you can relax and enjoy it.
Maybe you're afraid of pregnancy or disease?
What's the hurry?
2006-11-11 20:09:26 · answer #6 · answered by Roca W 1 · 3⤊ 0⤋
It's a matter of trusting your partner and being ready for it. It's different for everyone, so don't rush into things. Always use protection!
2006-11-11 20:09:44 · answer #7 · answered by Blue Jean 6 · 2⤊ 0⤋
Maybe you're just not ready for it. Don't push yourself. You don't HAVE to go all of the way. Good Luck!!! Jesus luvs ya
2006-11-11 20:10:50 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
can we say guilty conscience? What you are expiriencing is the reality that sex isn't all that in a relationship. This is a great time to read a bible.
2006-11-11 20:13:50 · answer #9 · answered by My dad ate my homework 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
There's nothing wrong with u....ur just not ready....just slow down...and it will come to u....don't rush into something that ur not ready for....
2006-11-11 20:28:24 · answer #10 · answered by ~ *Shawty* ~ 1 · 1⤊ 0⤋