I have been dating a guy for about 6 months and we are definately a couple. He is a great guy, and has a very compassionate heart. We are very open and honest with each other and that is one thing I love about him! Today he finally told me that he has a daughter. I was terribly shocked, but my love still stands for him. My quesiton is, what does that mean when a person reveals thier children to you. I planned on not having any children, however I would still marry him regardless. I think he is great father and I would have children with him!
2006-11-11 11:50:38 · 7 answers · asked by blacknubianqueen2000 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
I know everyone thinks he is not honest. However, he has been trying to tell me this, but I never really let him do that. And I never asked him if he did, I just assumed that! I feel that it is special when a person is allowed to meet your BF or GF children. That means they have some sort of trust with you!
2006-11-11 12:20:24 · update #1
He probably just got up enough nerve to tell you about his daughter because maybe you mentioned you didn't want children. Maybe he was thinking that if he told you, you might not want to be with him any more. If I were you I'd simply ask him why he waited so long to tell you. Since you say you have an honest and open relationship you two should be able to talk about this.
2006-11-11 11:54:01 · answer #1 · answered by nquizzitiv 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If he is so honest and up front, why did he wait six months to tell you that he has children? What else has he kept hidden? Be careful. If a person is not honest with you from the very beginning then you had better check this guy out. Do a criminal background check, go to the court house and find out if he has a wife he hasn't told you about. These days you have to be very careful about who you get mixed up with. There are women out there that have been used, abused, raped, robbed, and killed by men that they thought they knew. Be careful!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!
2006-11-11 11:59:02 · answer #2 · answered by hotmama 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
well, i think he isnt being too honest because he did take 6 months to tell you about a child! but i wouldnt read too much into it, dont think that he is about to ask you to marry him or anything
2006-11-11 11:54:00 · answer #3 · answered by lily 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
what that manes is that when your lover or should i put it your man tellls you he has a child,then that means that he has a lot of respect for you and do not fell likes he has to hid any thing from you any more.because A you have grown that bound between you and him or B he loves you and he do not want any thing to come in between what y'all have.
2006-11-12 07:50:33 · answer #4 · answered by lumpyloverzz 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
He opening up his world to you. He showing you what he loves also, his daughter. Its a big step and he wants you along with him. Good luck to you both. ROCK ON!!
2006-11-11 11:54:00 · answer #5 · answered by celloman2007 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i would question why it took him 6 months to tell you that he had a daughter.
2006-11-11 11:52:54 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
It means he wants you to know all the important things about him. Sounds like he's diggin' you, too.
2006-11-11 11:52:20 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋