Hi, I'm 22 and I really want to get with a good guy bfore Christimas I hate having to wait. Not too mention I'm shy. I know I look decent but I get to shy to approach guys I'm interested in. Help me please.
2006-11-11 11:48:38 · 24 answers · asked by tiggersgirl28147 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
If you are seriously looking for a nice guy, ask female and male friends. They usually know the people well so you wont risk meeting a psycho on a site. As well, you could try religious organizational social gatherings. They seem to have nice people who are looking to meet another nice person. Generally stay away from dating sites.
2006-11-11 11:51:23 · answer #1 · answered by Yan 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Being shy isn't such a bad thing but you will often find yourself being push to the back of the line.
All guys are good when you first dating them because they are interested, so if you saying you are looking for a nice guy, really you are looking for someone that loves you!
In saying so.... it isn't something you can just wish for or rush into as well as setting a time before it happen because love is a feeling, not a choice!
Marry Xmas,
Hope your time will come!
2006-11-11 19:55:10 · answer #2 · answered by Chew my Fat 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
There are some tried and true places to approach guys. The supermarket, laundry mat, church, etc. Here's an idea.. strike up a conversation just to talk..try not to look forward to creating a relationship other than friendship. Just chat casually and often. Don't miss an opportunity to strike up a conversation. Suddenly you will find friendships..relationship that develop from this level have a better chance of success.
2006-11-11 19:54:13 · answer #3 · answered by DrK 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Impatience is not going to be your friend in this quest. You'd have to define what you feel is nice enough for you and why you want to get with a "good guy". Luck could help you out, but I find that zeroing in on the non-verbal cues, and the historical reactions to situations says a lot about a person. People who know you could also be a good gauge for meeting someone who might be right for you. Finding someone that's right for your purpose starts by defining your purpose.
2006-11-11 19:53:30 · answer #4 · answered by Juicy Fruit 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
There is a lot of places to meet great guys! You don't necessarily always have to look in the clubs or bars. I love to go to sports places to watch the games! Such as Dave and Buster's, Indigo Joe's, etc! Another place even to think about is church! To me when a guy goes to church, that tells me that he is at least committed to something! Or even think about getting involved with local gyms, charity organizations, or even upcoming holiday parties at work. I met my boyfriend thru work and he was one of my clients! Be very proactive! When you are going to these places take a good friend with you! That will insure you some comfort while you are there and relax and have fun! The good ones come when you least expect it!
2006-11-11 20:03:57 · answer #5 · answered by blacknubianqueen2000 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
do it gradually. go out by yourself to a public place, like a coffee shop, art gallery, museum, etc (or something you are interested in) chances are you will find a smart, cultured guy doing something similar...and why alone? when a girl isn't with a group of friends, she is more approachable and guys are less intimidated to engage in conversation. also smile frequently, even at strangers. remember peoples names, etc...these are ways to slowly let your guard down and become more available for the nice guys.
2006-11-11 19:53:00 · answer #6 · answered by Sarah Jane 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
To be honest with you, you shouldn't have to look for anyone the right guy always finds you. Just be patient and pray, you know find a verse in the bible, I would try the book of psalms find a verse that best fits you. Psalms has very strong powerful verses to read!
2006-11-11 19:54:32 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
LOOK FOR THE GUY WHO ISNT LOOKING FOR GALS-THE SHY ONE THAT JUST HANGS OUT WITH PEOPLE IN PUBLIC,sorry just realized caps were on....anyway this type of guy is out looking but too shy to actively look-you'll have to start the conversation-dont fear rejection just let it bounce off-no one can blame you for trying and the reward is far better than wondering-what if
2006-11-11 19:52:11 · answer #8 · answered by cassiepiehoney 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Go for it,nothing ventured nothing gained,have you ever considered that the guys you like may be a little shy aswell and may just need a little encouragement.
2006-11-11 19:51:55 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Church is a good place to start looking for that certain guy. Try going to a church that has a nice fellowship hall and programs that include young people.
2006-11-11 19:55:31 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋