There are women who are sort of average and I really don't pay attention to, then they do something and all the sudden I find them very attractive. One woman, the perfume she was wearing just drove me crazy, another one it was the way she lowered her voice and said "uh, huh" and laughed at something funny. Does this happen to other people too? And if so, what gets your attention?
2006-11-11 11:43:50 · 7 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
I think that you are spot-on here!
People who are themselves without trying to be anything else is the greatest thing in the world and what attracts many men to women who aren't 'conscious' of trying to make an impression. Too many women try hard to make themselves attractive and this does not win the hearts of men in general.
It is called spontenaiety when somone we like is being natural we identify with them more and they are more approachable as people than ones that walk on air and think themselves too important.
Average women don't have a strong need to impress anyone and are comfortable being who they are without trying to be anything else. A lot of married men will choose 'average' women as their wives and because they feel they can be themselves around that person. Men who marry 'wanabee' glamerous women, are very often unhappy and because there is little spontenaiety in the relationship and they are often more likely to have affairs with less glamerous types.
Look at some famous men who have had affairs with their nannies and their female escorts! - the proof can be found everywhere. So I am glad that you as a man, can admit to what you do find attractive as some won't admit to to it and pretend to like models who are impersonable and distant and cosmetic.
Personally, I do like men who don't try too hard to be something they are not and would never go for a guy who is aloof and hard to be around, that is just plain ugly and isn't natural at all, so I can see where it is you are coming from with women. If she can be herself, then that is the most attractive thing in the world to a man and not how she dresses or tries to be something else.
2006-11-11 12:02:25 · answer #1 · answered by Shikira-trudi 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
There's something that is attractive about everyone, but it's different in every person. There is alwyas something that attracts me to peole and I may not be interested in dating them but there is something about that that is a little irresistible and sexy. It could be a sense of humor or even the way they walk. It's usually the sense of humor and the eyes that do it for me.
2006-11-11 11:49:12 · answer #2 · answered by Meagan 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It's so ironic u bring up the question. There's this one guy I really like but had found annoying a year earlier before I started liking him. I never noticed him before. when I finally had a chance to really look at his face and see his personality, I fell for him. he's so great. How didn't I see that before? Was I blind? I agree with ya.
2006-11-11 11:47:04 · answer #3 · answered by Ahhh....Me Time 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
That seems to be the real thing. Most guys, to put it mildly, notice the body and looks but once they get to know the real women they find the personality is more irresistable and appealing. That is what is happening to you too. Hopefully it happens to other guys too.
2006-11-11 11:46:24 · answer #4 · answered by Black 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It happens to me, i thought all guys are freakin weird but then one guy, has the sexiest eyes, the way he dresses, the way he smiles at me they way we talk and laugh! i think he is great and attractive but that is just how i feel abt him. ⥠-Ria
2006-11-13 12:27:24 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yes, sometimes it is just one thing that makes you look at someone differently, either good or bad.
2006-11-11 11:46:42 · answer #6 · answered by loulou 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
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2006-11-11 11:45:34 · answer #7 · answered by oompah loompah hahaha i93huir38r 1 · 1⤊ 2⤋