Guys ..true or not? I also heard a man feeling respected is important.....if she tries to change you or give you advice...do you take that as a lack of repect...just curious...
2006-11-11 11:38:49 · 6 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
I listen to the advice and accept it or reject it on its own merits,
As for trying to change me I take that as an insult to who I am.
and if she doesn't like me for who I am, I put an end to the whole farse, and head down the road.
2006-11-11 11:46:38 · answer #1 · answered by mark_grvr 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It's true.........i broke up with my gf cos she was trying to change me into someone i didn't want to be. For example getting me to wear expensive clothing........to me, such actions showed a lack of respect. I hate girls that try and change u once ur with them........they should accept u for who u are, otherwise they shouldn't be in the reletionship in the first place with u.
2006-11-11 19:44:44 · answer #2 · answered by hegimony1 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Both guys & girls have personal flaws that need to be improved.
For example, I need to work on my temper.
My ex-girlfriend swore like a sailor. I told her it makes her sound ignorant if that's the only way she could express herself.
She said the "accept me as I am" thing. It was just one thing in a list that led me to break up with her.
When I was with my wife (before she died), she encouraged me to work on my temper, and not in a nagging way.
She worked on bringing my strengths to the front of my personality.
Women can be men's greatest asset, or their greatest irritation, and vice-versa.
It works both ways in a relationship, and it starts with communication.
2006-11-11 20:01:50 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Feelings are a major part of every guy, either jock or the average joe, all guys have them. Guys want girls who want for who they are (personality) and not their looks. Though guys wants girls who like their looks but does not base their decision if they want to go out or not on their looks.
Its complicated but thats how i work anyways.
2006-11-11 19:53:39 · answer #4 · answered by V kid 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
it is not a lack of respect it is calles beingpu$$y whipped when you change a man you will always Pu$$y Whip him so accept him as is and leave his dignity intact
2006-11-11 19:42:34 · answer #5 · answered by neun_und_sectzig 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
love, admiration, respect and affection.
Changing someone means you don't accept them.
2006-11-11 19:42:39 · answer #6 · answered by Violet Pearl 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋