I've been apart from the father of my kids for a few yrs now & have remained single since coz my kids are still very young & i don't want any1 else entering their lives causin more confusion. Even if i entered into a relationship i would wait for as long as possible to introduce any1 to my kids as i would have to be positive that it would be the right thing to do,the problem is that now i seem to have cut myself off from relationships altogether, i've become so afraid of causin my kids to be upset that i avoid gettin involved at all... i don't know how to break the cycle here & i'm worried that i might stay single forever & i don't really want that... but on the other hand i don't want anythin serious right now either... any advice for me???
2006-11-11 11:36:52 · 4 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
It is Ok to date. You do not have to introduce them to your kids if you do not want to, but get out there and have some fun. Just because you have kids does not mea you need to be a stick in the mud. Besides eventually your kids are gonna grow up, you will have no idea how to date then.
Take it one step at a time and above all else have a good time while you are out, there is nothing wrong with this,
2006-11-11 11:41:19 · answer #1 · answered by live4logan 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Just relax a little and go with the flow, I believe that everyone finds happiness eventually. Your kids don't need protecting they are wiser then you give them credit for. Go out and enjoy!!!!!
2006-11-11 11:51:52 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Just be patient..when you meet someone you like you will just take it slow...dont panic...children come first and remember they are not always going to be young.
2006-11-11 11:40:39 · answer #3 · answered by fajita 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I'm the same honey it's sh*t being a single mum
2006-11-11 11:38:59 · answer #4 · answered by Elle J Morgan 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋