2006-11-11 11:30:12 · 19 answers · asked by Sally 1 in Society & Culture ➔ Religion & Spirituality
Probably because you're so annoying, alos, god doesnt exist.
2006-11-11 12:24:43 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋
I am not sure how you can think the two have any thing to do with one another. It takes more faith to think that all the beauty you see around you just happened than it does to believe that there is a God. There could be many reasons why you don't have any friends but believe me God is not causing it. God loves you and if you would take the time to get to know him you would know this.
2006-11-11 19:49:12 · answer #2 · answered by David T 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
This doesn't have anything to do with God.
What do you do to make friends? Do you present yourself in a friendly open manner or are you rude and hard to get along with? Do you come across as unbiased or do you seem judgmental? Do you have a sense of humor? Are you faithful, loyal, unselfish, able to keep secrets? Do you get out in public so the chance of meeting new people is available? When you are in public, do you make conversation with people?
Psychology today had an interesting article about friends. Most people make friends by meeting someone with whom they have something in common, whether it is someone in their scrapbooking club, church, or at the gym. The acquaintance then becomes more like a friend once interaction outside the shared activity occurs, like going to lunch or talking on the phone. When both parties start to open up, testing the waters to see if more personal information can be shared, a true friendship develops.
Get out there and find someone that you would like to get to know. Then, invite them to lunch or dinner. Next thing you know, you'll be on your way to a new friend.
2006-11-11 19:35:55 · answer #3 · answered by shybusch 3 · 1⤊ 1⤋
The Lord has given a free will to everyone. He will not turn some people into "robots" and make them come to you and be your friends. Regardless of what your personality is, everyone has the ability to interact with others and get to know them.
Granted, I don't know anything at all about the situation you may be in right now, but try doing this.
The Lord told us it is better to give than to receive, and blessed are the merciful for the will receive mercy. If you see someone in McDonald's, on the bus, in the library, at the grocery store, at work, in the hospital, or anywhere else, who looks rather depressed or discouraged about something, go over to them and start a conversation with them. Work on cheering them up. You will develop a relationship with some of them, and that will lead to friendship.
Also one thing that will REALLY help you is to start attending a good Christian church. As you begin to attend the services you will start to know others, and begin to form good solid friendships
Finally, the BEST friendship you can establish is a good strong relationship with Jesus Christ. Ask the Lord to reveal Himself to you, and accept Him as your Lord and Savior. To begin this relationship with Him visit this website, http://www.kcm.org/studycenter/salvation/index.php pray on a daily basis, and before you know it you will have more friends that you can count. Take care, and God bless you.
2006-11-11 19:58:30 · answer #4 · answered by stebdawg 3 · 0⤊ 1⤋
There isnt a God. But if there was, it's probably because he wants you to appreciate friends when you get them or suff. Balance. Or that he needs you to do some inner reflection, realise your individuality and how strong you can be, even alone. Use this time, because it will not be forever.
If youre really friendless, which Im sure youre not totally, then why not join a club/group or make more small talk? No one is unlikeable.
2006-11-11 19:36:18 · answer #5 · answered by lady_s_hazy 3 · 1⤊ 1⤋
How is God responsible for you not having any friends? Do you think He makes people dislike you or something?
2006-11-11 19:39:42 · answer #6 · answered by tabs 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Honey what do you mean you have no friends?Im sure you have friends.If not then you be a good friend to others,treat others the way you want to be treated,and I garantee you will have friends in no time.Pray and ask God to send you friends as swell.Dont worry just trust in God.
2006-11-11 19:34:25 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 1⤋
I don't see how having or not having friends would prove or disprove the existence of a god
2006-11-11 19:34:03 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
Why don't you show up at a good local church and make some friends? Try a Baptist church or a non-denominational one like the one I go to. http://www.alcf.net
Get involved with one of the volunteer ministries or show up for a class or something like that and I'm sure you will have a least one friend in a short time.
2006-11-11 19:34:14 · answer #9 · answered by Martin S 7 · 1⤊ 1⤋
It depends. Have you made the effort into making them. have you tried an outgoing personality? have you tried being yourself? Don't blame God if you don't have any friends.
2006-11-11 21:09:14 · answer #10 · answered by KewlieD 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋