THIS NEW girl started working at OUR Work(ONLY TWO WEEKS), she is new to town and no bf BUT has lot of gfs.
WHAT i should do,, i like her very much.
1) Ask her out on date now? keep in mind the risk if she refussed it will creat tension at work and i may loose her even as a friend
2) just be friend and try to know each other and keep flirting,, keeping in mind the risk that some body else may ask her out and she may end up been in love too soon and I will never be able to date her
I am so depreesed , i dont know what to do, so please just vote 1, or 2 ..no comments thanks :
Note:, i lost my last job b/c i asked a girl for date (too many time, b/c she keep giving vague answers) , AND i guessed she complained... so I am very scary too....
2006-11-11 11:29:38 · 27 answers · asked by lpc9911 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
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---- And just *don't* commit suicide ever!!! ----
2006-11-11 11:31:31 · answer #1 · answered by ♥ AnGeL oF cLaRiTy ♥ 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
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2006-11-11 11:32:29 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
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2006-11-11 11:31:44 · answer #3 · answered by maryjane 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
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2006-11-11 11:40:10 · answer #4 · answered by marchhare57 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
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2006-11-11 11:32:19 · answer #5 · answered by Nellynoo 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
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2006-11-11 11:32:11 · answer #6 · answered by S K 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
#2 - it will help you keep your job. As a rule, if you ask a co-worker out once and she says no. It's up to her to ask the next time. You should not ask more than once or risk losing your job due to harrassment charges. I would not ask her now since you seem vulnerable and a "no" from her now woud make you feel like crap at a time when you say you already feel depressed. You may also want to seriously consider calling a crisis center hotline. You are not mentally stable if you are considering suicide over a date and you need to take care of you before you are ready to date any one else.
2006-11-11 11:36:10 · answer #7 · answered by Wildfire 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Well, if you didn't want comments you came to the wrong place. So let me tell you. Don't ever committ suicide for anybody. Because guess what? When people die, we eventually get over it and move on w/our lives. So whether you die or not, she still will be with somebody. Even if it takes her awhile if she feels guilty. Because that man that will come into her life will let her know that it's not her fault. Remember, people who committ suicide don't go to heaven. I think you need to seek professional help. Don't take this as an insult, take it from someone who cares about people in general. DON'T COMMIT SUICIDE! YOU ARE NEEDED IN THIS WORLD. THAT'S WHY GOD PUT YOU ON EARTH IN THE FIRST PLACE.
2006-11-11 11:41:30 · answer #8 · answered by TRULEY MADLY DEEPLEY 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Sorry, but im not voting 1 or 2. You sound like you have serious issues.DO NOT COMMITT SUICIDE. Get on the phone and call a suicide hotline RIGHT NOW! Then, get cousleing!!!!!!!!!
1-800-448-3000
2006-11-11 11:34:35 · answer #9 · answered by Vee 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
ask her if she wants to hang out and do something outside of work. like hanging out, playing pool or go to a movie. its not bad to ask her on a date just dont be too persistant if she refuses. if he says no just be a friend and leave it at that. you never know what may happen down the line.
2006-11-11 11:34:06 · answer #10 · answered by pink_pierced_wings 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I vote number 2 and do not, DO NOT kill yourself. If it doesn't work out, that just means that there's someone else out there waiting 4 u... and when you do meet her, you will know from deep within that she's the one.
2006-11-11 11:37:06 · answer #11 · answered by nichellecomicbookgirl 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋