I love my niece and nephew but they are some very bad kids. They come over my house and swing from the furniture. They break all the windows and dishes in the house every time they visit. Sometimes my nephew even urinates on our dining room table just to see the "waterfalls", I love them but I do not know what to do about their behavior. I try spanking them but everytime I do this they just wind up beating me up to a bloody pulp with their homemade whips and chains. Is ther anyting that I can do to stop their behavior??
2006-11-11 11:22:35 · 15 answers · asked by flushing06 2 in Pregnancy & Parenting ➔ Parenting
write to the prducers of the show "The Nanny" asap!
2006-11-11 11:34:02 · answer #1 · answered by superwoman4774 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Call child protection services in your area. Your brother or sister has serious parenting problems that need to be addressed professionally. Certainly you don't think anything is normal about a child urinating on a table or turning on your with homemade whips and chains. If you don't intervene now, your niece and nephew and your brother or sister will have much bigger problems in the future.
If you really love them, make sure they all get professional help.
2006-11-11 11:36:00 · answer #2 · answered by Maddy Waddy 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
I'm a kid, And I know for a fact that spanking is not the way to solve it... I am on the student council at my school and me talk to allot of troubled kids. They way I find most effective is bye talking to them very calmly and listen to them. Make sure you hear them out before punishing them. As for breaking dishes and urinating on the table.. It takes a long time for kids to act this way. Bad experiences often cause misbehavior. Mistreatment, Pear Pressure (Probably a little young for that though) Theres lots of things that can cause this.
I hope what I said helps! :D
2006-11-11 11:35:12 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
Check out the Nanny 911 Book By Deborah Carroll and Stella Reid. Lots of helpful tips for all situations, and it works!
The key to good children is Consistency, routine, attention, boundaries, believe you can do it, and lots of love!
2006-11-11 12:40:58 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
First their behavior is not their fault, it is their parents fault. And if their parents do not discipline them at all, nothing you can do will make a difference.
I would absolutely refuse to let them into my house. If you want to visit them, go to their place or meet them at the park. WITH their mom or dad!
I cannot believe kids would act that way and get away with it.
2006-11-11 11:27:35 · answer #5 · answered by crzygal 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
They will grow out of this one day. Just sit back and take the beatings. It will be worth it in a few years they will have jobs and buy you new dishes.
2006-11-15 02:16:21 · answer #6 · answered by Rosie_Says 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
First of all slap their parents up side the head!!! Second tell their parents that they are not to bring their nasty little kids over unless they can control them. If either my children or my g/f's children tried anything like that they would be spanked severly. If they are beyond your ability to control YOU can not have them over. Protect yourself first, worry about them later!
2006-11-11 13:35:21 · answer #7 · answered by T-Bone 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
i think its not his fault so do not take it out on the newborn. perhaps he isn't getting sufficient of something at residing house. he's a newborn who's from a recent broken residing house. it is what he's surrounded by making use of,did you ever think of this newborn could desire to be doing this to get the " undesirable interest" with the aid of fact he does not get sufficient sturdy interest.childrens study from what they see, and how they're dealt with. handle him like a individual and unlike he's the newborn who's disregarded' the brat newborn in the relatives.childrens sence that stuff.do not take it out on him.Get to be attentive to him and attempt to appreciate why.
2016-10-17 04:07:00 · answer #8 · answered by shade 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Flush-off!
This and your other degenerate questions are not the purpose of Yahoo Answers.
(I'll take 2 points for each one of them though with this same response...)
2006-11-12 08:32:22 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
IF THEY ARE THAT BAD LET THEM STAY HOME UNTIL THEY LEARN TO BEHAVE BETTER . WHY WOULD YOU HAVE THEM OVER, WHAT ARE THEIR MOM AND DAD DOING ABOUT THEM? NEVER SPANK THEM THAT WILL NEVER WORK. YOU HAVE TO PUNISH THEM, TAKE EVERYTHING YOU CAN TAKE FROM THEM. MAKE THEM SIT DOWN NOT FOR AN HOUR BUT ALL DAY. IF YOU CAN'T PUNISH THEM, THEY WIL NEVER BEHAVE. SPANKING WILL NEVER WORK.
2006-11-11 11:34:04 · answer #10 · answered by BLUE 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋