its like this, i know i love my wife but still i like to see other women. i know i'm contented with my wife, she's cool, kind and loving, but i don't know why i like to see others.
2006-11-11 11:17:51 · 23 answers · asked by coolguy 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
You should probably be honest with your wife.. and tell her..
If she is not into this kind of relationships.. your should be honest with her and yourself and get a divorce. before kids are involved.
You would not want to raise your kids in this type of atmosphere of distrust.
2006-11-11 11:20:14 · answer #1 · answered by buttercup 2 · 2⤊ 0⤋
If you knew this before, why did you get married? Sorry, but that's very selfish of you to do this to a woman that you say you love. If you really love her as much as you say you do, do something about it. Seeing as you don't actually sound "sorry" that you feel this way, I suggest that you seek outside help. See a relationship councilor, maybe alone at first, to see whether they think you should tell your wife at this stage. You might be able to save her the terrible hurt she'd feel if she found out.(Of course, if you've had unprotected sex, this all goes out the window-you must tell her for her own safety if you've been that stupid). The councilor might think honesty is best. If that's the case, you're going to have to stand up and be a man and take what you deserve. Your wife might just want to throw you out on your ****, or she might want to try to work through it. Whatever, she probably deserves better, so do something about it now, not down the track.
2006-11-11 19:32:49 · answer #2 · answered by bougainvillaea 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
To put it simple you are a fool. I was going to say "choke yourself" but that was a smart alec answer. What kind of a person are you that will deliberately hurt a wife who is kind and loving to you? Have you ever thought of her feelings? Should you continue with your behavior which by the way is extremely childish and immature you won't have to worry about your wife's feelings because you won't have her anymore. The only real advice I can give you is get a divorce because you are not grown up enough to have a wife. Let your wife be free to find a real man.
2006-11-11 19:26:12 · answer #3 · answered by papricka w 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
You got married because she was the best that you could do.
You need to take a long look in the mirror. She's still the best that you can do.
It's fine to look at other chicks, just remember their all whiney, self centered, and needy like your wife.
That's why God invented Hooters. Eat, drink beer, look at chicks and sports. They bring you stuff, don't say too much, and then you go home. If they stay too long at the table and actually talk, it'll ruin the experience.
2006-11-11 19:37:15 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Besides just wanting to see other woman, is there anything else you think about? LIke do you think about sleeping with other womean, or what something like that will be like. If thats the case then you probably need to divorce in order for you to act on your impulses. But if your just wanting to see other women, even that is indication of something being wrong. You need to talk to your wife.
2006-11-11 19:27:27 · answer #5 · answered by Hal Jordan 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Would she be opposed to a Poly style of relationship? Of course, if you open yourself up to that kind of lovestyle, you would also have to give her leave to ... love others as well.
This type of lovestyle is mostly when one person is bisexual. Though at times, it can be when both partners in a Mono relationship come to the realization that the heart is capable of loving more than one person.
For instance, my husband has a girlfriend and she's my friend as well. We go to movies/shopping/dinner ... stuff like that. My husband ... loves her as he loves me. It's just a suggestion ... it will depend on your wife and you.
Good luck
2006-11-11 19:21:41 · answer #6 · answered by Duchess 2 · 0⤊ 2⤋
if u want to see other women thats cheating sorry to say this maybe u shouldnt have a girlfriend or wife
2006-11-11 19:20:30 · answer #7 · answered by VanessaHudgensFan 1 · 1⤊ 0⤋
You have two choices. Either let her know that this is how you fell and work it out together or get a divorce. Obviously one women is not enough for you.
2006-11-11 19:20:22 · answer #8 · answered by live4logan 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
that is really a dumb qestion you are not really in love with youre wife the way you should be. she should be youre only thought.YOu remind me of my ex son in law so tell her the truth and get it over with before you hurt her worse or the kids you may have.
2006-11-11 19:21:18 · answer #9 · answered by furby_lost 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
does she or is she allowed to see other men?
probably not.
if it does not bother her[i am sure she does not know],then fine.
if you loved her as you say...control yourself and be with the one you love...YOUR WIFE!!
remember your vows?
this makes me very upset because there are alot of men who would love to have a woman like yours and she has been mislead into you and your type into thinking you actually love them enough to love only them!!
2006-11-11 19:26:11 · answer #10 · answered by transvainia 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋