i have a best friend that is married and we have been messing around for 2 years. a week ago he came to see me for my birthday and he was saying things that confused me and he did not have his wedding band on he always has is on. he played a song that had the words i love you in it and told me to listen to the words what to do....
2006-11-11 11:10:03 · 20 answers · asked by shortyz415 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Good God I pray there are no children involved here. What in the helk is wrong with you? Pathetic. Selfish, pure and simple you are both selfish.
2006-11-11 11:11:39 · answer #1 · answered by BlueSea 7 · 2⤊ 0⤋
I am confused as to why you have been messing around with a married man for 2 years anyway or even 2 minutes for that matter. Do you not know that is wrong ?? What he should have played to you was Proud Mary as just as the song goes Big wheels keep on turning, It will turn around on you one day l hope . Then you will know how it feels. Have you enjoyed being the other woman, if the answer is YES then l guess you two will be happy together until the wheel turns again on you next time.
2006-11-11 19:32:36 · answer #2 · answered by kazzadanni 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You know what to do. You've been trying to ruin the life of someone you call your best friend for two years. You have two choices, get out of his life now or you can hope he will get a divorce and marry you. Actually the second is the best choice because this philanderer will then find a honey and let you sit home alone. And the great part is his wife will then be free to find a decent man.
2006-11-11 19:19:16 · answer #3 · answered by papricka w 5 · 2⤊ 0⤋
The smart thing to do would be remove yourself from the picture for a while and let the marriage dissolve on it's own. Don't let it be because of you. Then when that's over, start something new up, don't pick up where you left off at. Relationships need time to grow and you don't want to be the next wife he's leaving for someone new (or old)
2006-11-11 19:13:11 · answer #4 · answered by sixcannonballs 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
What is there to be confused about??? You are seeing a married man who is hinting that he may love you.....What kinda person would cheat on their wife for 2 yrs.....what kinda woman would wanta have a 2 year relationship with a married man??? You 2 deserve each other......He cheated on her,,,he will cheat on you.....You must not think much of yourself.....If he gets divorced.....Marry him;;;then he can put your ring in his pocket for 2 years when he's "messing around with his new "best freind"........R U STUPID???
People like you 2 piss me off
2006-11-11 19:17:09 · answer #5 · answered by Lrn'dTheHardWay 3 · 3⤊ 0⤋
Just because he played you a song that had "i love you", that does not mean that he is in love with you. He might not be as serious as you have taken it. Some guys do these things casually without a serious thought (I do!!!). Wait for sometime and make sure that he really likes you.
I would suggest you wait and understand his new behavior.
Looks like you too like him... hold on yourself for a while....... otherwise, you may end up with a crush..........
2006-11-11 20:12:23 · answer #6 · answered by Aster1978 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Tell himt hat it is wrong what you are doing and stay distanced for a bit untill he works things out with his wife. If he tries again I would tell her it is unfair to not know what he is doing. If he divorces and is sure he wants you. start fresha nd try to be cautious so he doesnt do the same stuff to you
2006-11-11 19:32:24 · answer #7 · answered by ██████████ 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
it seems like you already decided to be an adulterer from the minute you started messing with this man. his wife deserves to know the truth. you should encourage him to be a man and tell her the truth and decide whether he wants to stay married and stop messing around, or get a divorce.
2006-11-11 19:14:49 · answer #8 · answered by KylieM 6 · 3⤊ 0⤋
are you saying now that he is leaving his wife, maybe , you don't want him anymore... or are you more confused that he is actually leaving his wife. i would not say good for you, but if your feelings for him are true, you need to talk with him. Ask him what he meant about the words in the song.
2006-11-11 19:14:01 · answer #9 · answered by loulou 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Stop messing around with someone who's married. Tell him it's time for him to pick one.
2006-11-11 19:16:25 · answer #10 · answered by Ariella 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋