ok so my friend had surgery becuase she had soliosis ( hey spine was croced) and fro 3 weeks she couldn't eat because the doctor were empting her stomach so she got really skinny. When she left the hospital she told me she was gonna eat eat eat so she could get fatter ( she was really skinny) and now it's being more than a year and sh eonly got a little bigger and all my other friends noticed that she was skinny. my friend never eats breakfast and never brings her lunch to school or brings money to buy food. As home she says she eats all the time but when she over at any of our friends houses she never eats. Is there something worng with her?
2006-11-11 11:09:53 · 5 answers · asked by alexandra 1 in Health ➔ Other - Health
i tried to tell her to eat more and i give her some of my food and somethimes i buy her lunch but it's getting rediculous because i spend all my allowence for the week feeding me and her and now i stopped bieng food food for her and she always eats like part of my lunch and later i feel hungry so what am i supposed to do. I don't want to be a pig but i only bring a sandwich to school and i want to eat it so i mnot hunhry after her parents always feed her but she just doesn't want it or when she has money for lunch she doesn't spend it and saves if to buy like $40 clothes. And when she has money and i don't seh doesn't offer to buy me something i think she just profits of my money.
2006-11-11 11:31:19 · update #1
Im afraid to say your friend may be dealing with a eating disorder, (anerexia or bulimia) one they starve themsleves the other the binge eat when noone see's then the force themselves to vomit, you need to let them know you do notice and try to talk to their family about her eating and your concerns then get her to a doctor, both of these eating disorders are LIFE THREATINING... i hope it helps
2006-11-11 11:19:12 · answer #1 · answered by VEE 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
she more then likely doesn't want to eat because she likes being thin and if she starts eating a lot she may start to get bigger like she was before the surgery.
2006-11-11 19:18:45 · answer #2 · answered by george 2 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
she needs to start eating, talk to the school counselor, it is good to see that you are such a good friend and care about her.
Good luck and god bless!â¥
2006-11-11 19:18:54 · answer #3 · answered by Olivia 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I suggest you talk to her parents, because it sounds like anorexia to me.
2006-11-11 19:12:44 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
oh somethings not right with her.....if she's your friend why don't you talk to her...let her know that your concerned about her....and take it from there.....
good luck
2006-11-11 19:18:41 · answer #5 · answered by girlegyrl 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋