I have a strange communication problem with women. Every time when I speak to a woman, unknowingly I look at her breasts, that causes woman to check and correct their dresses. When a woman does so, I feel guilty. This creates lots of discomfort to me to speak with women. Sometime, I get scared to talk to woman due to this habitual problem. It isn't that I try to see their breasts, but, accidentally, every time, my eyes catch the woman chest area during conversation. This problem is causing me a kind of avoidance in speaking to women. Some time I do turn my face away from their body and speak. Is there a way I can come out of this problem? Do all the guys feel this problem or only me? How should a guy speak to women without causing discomfort to them?
2006-11-11 11:00:04 · 13 answers · asked by Aster1978 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Sounds like you are a tit man. I love large breasts and some catch a glance, but start with eye contact. As the conservation progresses the glance won't be the main concern of why you are talking to her and she won't be as conscious of your glance.... Respect women and their beauty. See the beauty inside first and enjoy the beauty outside later.
2006-11-11 11:05:19 · answer #1 · answered by Chuck C 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I only read half and pretty much Thats all I need to know.
Unless u want someone looking at your private parts when they are in a compromising position, soft or hard and judging u in all catergories, u shouldnt expect someone to feel comfortable.
Do u look at men the same way? or children, u seem to understand the diff. however; u act like u dont no how to contain ur self and look at a person in the eyes.
If u only do this to women over the age of 21 okay.
if this is to someone that "looks mature and looks like a possible "women" then u have a more serious problem.
There is nothing mocho about making a women fix her dress...
infact u sound like u r the person in distress....
u just made her feel uncomfortable and then u turn it around & act like u r the one that is the victim.
get some help or get a girlfriend or boyfriend, over the age of 24.
please get some help
2006-11-11 11:16:39 · answer #2 · answered by sherenavalico 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You shoul not feel guilty, it is natural, but ya could try to STOP!! What r they wearing? Low cleavage, turtle-neck? Is it all the time u do that? Look at the floor or a glass on the table instead. Some guys have that same problem and it cannot get them dates either cuz the woman will not respect them. Just apologize when u catch yourself doing so if it bothers her. I wont apologize when I look at a guys ..... unless he gets mad.
2006-11-11 11:09:41 · answer #3 · answered by rhonda_seiler 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I suppose it is natural for a guy to stare at a woman's breasts. And since you cannot tear yourself from this embarrassing habits (for both you and the women) then perhaps try complimenting her. If you catch yourself staring at her breasts, and she sees you do it, calmly look her up and down and look her straight into the eyes and say "you look fabulous today". this way it will get you out of that "stop checking her out" phase. Good luck.
2006-11-11 11:04:11 · answer #4 · answered by BlueGirl007 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Maybe you have not found a women that really interests you intellectually. So therefore you just turn to the physical. Do you stare at you mothers or other women family members breast? If not it is not all women it is just some. Try to really focus on what they are saying and nothing else.
2006-11-11 11:05:45 · answer #5 · answered by meme 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Wear sunglasses. Then you can have an entire conversation with a woman without ever having to look up at her face. Just pretend you're looking at her face.
As for the excuse to wear sunglasses; just say you recently came down with some sort of eye infection!
Sorted.
2006-11-11 11:03:43 · answer #6 · answered by rishi_is_awake 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
"How should a guy speak to women without causing discomfort to them?" well, um.. first by not looking at their breasts and second try focusing in the eyes.
2006-11-11 11:01:37 · answer #7 · answered by ♥ღαмαиdα♥ღ 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Don't look at their boobs. You're a grown up and you can control your own eyes. It's very degrading to have our boobs stared at. We are humans with breasts, not breasts with a human.
2006-11-11 11:02:10 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
It's involuntary, they are trying to keep from ripping therre clothes off! Read a book on body language, eyes side to side = i hear ya, up= i see what u mean, and down = i'm thinking alike, etc...
2006-11-11 11:01:42 · answer #9 · answered by fantasticopinionsfree 3 · 0⤊ 2⤋
Happens to me too bro, but you know, a few women ask for it. If you don't want someone staring, then don't dress like a slut = /.
2006-11-11 11:02:35 · answer #10 · answered by Gilirel 1 · 1⤊ 1⤋