Ok, so my best friend is a girl (i'm a guy) we are 15 (mature) and have known each other for 2 years. Recently-for about the last two weeks- she has been asking for hugs alot, almost every day, and keeps saying she loves me. She had never done either of these before. But the thing is, she has a boyfriend (16), so I dont know what is up with the hugging etc. all of a sudden. I like her more than a friend and I have to tell her (I will wait till she breaks up with the guy), but I want to know, why might she be getting more touchy so much so quickly? If I am walking her home she puts her arm around me, and the other day I just made the flippant comment; hey, the cat's giving me a back rub, none of ye are that nice (to a group of friends) and she said "I'd give you a back rub". I find this behaviour odd since she has a bf.
2006-11-11 10:59:38 · 9 answers · asked by flaminious 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
It's obvious she is looking for something that her boyfriend is not providing to her. So do it already. You don't need her b/f permission to make a move on a girl that obviously has the hots for you.
My mom always tells me… you can either be good, or good at it. Try being good at it, and you will definitely be the one in her life.
Make it happen, and good luck with that!
2006-11-11 11:03:47 · answer #1 · answered by diagofaldi 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Seems to me that your friend might like you. However, her behavior is inappropriate since she has a boyfriend. If she increases her flirting towards you, maybe you should ask her "Hey, are you and ______ alright?"
Either your friend just flirts a lot on the side, or maybe she is looking to break up with her boyfriend and is interested in you.
Good Luck :)
2006-11-11 19:06:13 · answer #2 · answered by Rachel 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i'm willing to bet she got with this b/f of hers because she thought u two were going to just be best friends forever, and while she liked you as more, thought it'd never be. Now she's expressing it to you by all these hugs and comments, and i'm willing to bet she likes you more then her b/f. So tell her how u feel now, or ask her if she "likes" you as more then just a friend. Then again i could always be wrong. I have plently of friends that are girls that just love giving and recieving hugs from their friends *shrugs* go with ur gut feeling
2006-11-11 19:06:15 · answer #3 · answered by high heat 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I would say she likes you and mabey feels free to touch you because she knows that you know she has a bf
on the other hand she may be planning to break up w/ her bf.
I would say wait a little longer and enjoy it as it is and see what happens.
2006-11-11 19:04:26 · answer #4 · answered by 1-4-all 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
OHHH, man you are in a trouble, you should talk with her and ask her what are her feelings, because maybe she is confused or maybe she wants to break with her boyfriend and she is using you
2006-11-11 19:04:29 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Tell her she has a boyfriend so why is she flirting with you?She must like you~
2006-11-11 19:03:50 · answer #6 · answered by くる. 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
she wants you bro tell the boyfriend to kick rocks
2006-11-11 19:03:20 · answer #7 · answered by whynot 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Tell her to knock it off. She has a bf.
2006-11-11 19:01:22 · answer #8 · answered by S K 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Go For it!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!
2006-11-11 19:03:13 · answer #9 · answered by Mustang 95 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋