I'm bored with my boyfriend of almost 3 years. What should I do?

Question

He is my one and only serious boyfriend. We've been together since high school. Now I'm in college and he's working a real job that takes most of his time. Ocassionally he still makes me happy, but these times are not very often. Some weeks I only get to see him maybe twice. I'm just wondering if I should experience dating and stuff while in college because after I graduate I know it will be harder to meet people. There is nothing wrong with my boyfriend except that I'm bored.

Answer 1

hey!!

that will naturally happen anyway.

married couples get bored, age doesn't cure boredom & neither does being a adolescent or mature and worldly wise! Life isn't like that!!

you can choose to keep you friendship and stay together before something else breaks you up or decide that you're gonna get maried and then act accordingly! ... i had a very bad breakup with my first love and I wish things were different i love her still although i don't want a relationship, she knew me, and i don't open up to people that much these days because i'm older. I wish things were different.

Be gentle with him, and keep him as a friend. Boredom is one of the worst things that can happen to a relationship but it's natural and it's fair if you are, just be friends, not every good thing was meant to last forever!

Answer 2

If he is boring you, it is time to move on. Just try not to be mean about it. You are not ready to settle down and need to date some other guys. It sounds like he is a bit more mature than you are right now. Dating other guys will help you to mature. Good luck.

Answer 3

You are a self centered jerk! Let the poor guy go, you are not good enough for him. Bored? You are pathetic. You should seek mental help. There is more to life than just you! I am glad that I don't know you!