I have two guys that want to go out with me right now... I really want to go out with one of them but... i can't tell him yes right now because I am to worried about the other ones feelings!
Does this mean I like both of them?
What should i do?
2006-11-11 10:27:46 · 24 answers · asked by Holly Ann 4 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
If you end up going with the other one but are constantly thinking about the first one, then you're not exactly going enjoy yourself. Just go out with whoever you like most, and go from there. The other one will understand. We cant always make everyone happy.
2006-11-11 10:29:44 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 2⤊ 0⤋
Never put someone else's feeling before yours. I don't know if you like both of them but, you sound like you are a very nice person that thinks of others. There is nothing wrong with that. So, I say date both of them and let both of them know what you are looking for in a relationship. The right on will stay. Not to worry about the one that strays. If this doesn't sound right do what your heart tells you to do. There isn't much logic when it comes to love....it's from the heart. Good luck and have fun.
2006-11-11 10:32:20 · answer #2 · answered by Rosa 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Play the field and even find another one or two. Find out which one you really like the best and the only way is to date them all. The one you feel makes you special and you start thinking more about than the others, then spend more time with that one. The idea behind dating is to pick the right one. If we already knew the answer we would just marry on the first date and start having children.
2006-11-11 10:34:21 · answer #3 · answered by Chuck C 4 · 2⤊ 1⤋
Why not go out with both? You have no obligation to tell either of them that you went on another date with another guy. How are you supposed to begin to know who you really like unless you go out with more than one. Just don't sleep with either of them or do anything crazy like that and you should be fine. Now when it comes to who you want to be exclusive with, that's when you need to narrow it down to one, but by then you would of went out with each of them several times and will be able to eliminate one.
2006-11-11 11:34:56 · answer #4 · answered by Corona 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you are not dating either one of them right now, then you are not committed to either one.
Go out with the one you like the most.
If only one is asking, then go out with the one that is asking. The other may step up to the plate and ask if he sees that you have other offers.
2006-11-11 10:30:08 · answer #5 · answered by Barbara 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Its hard deciding between two boys. If you already no which one you like it is alot easier. Dont feel guily about telling the one you like that you like them the truth just because your worried about hurting the other ones feelings, they will just have to deal with it.
And just because you are worried about hurting one of their feelings doesnt mean that you like them too. That is just human. Anyone with a heart doesnt want to hurt someones feelings.
I think you should really think about it. Like think about saying that you want to go out with, say one guys name is Jeff, think about saying "i love you jeff" if all your heart is into it and not one part of you doubts that it is true then you must love him. Then do it for the other guy, same thing. That should help you pick if you dont already no. If you do no just tell the guy you like that you like him too. I mean no worry you already no he likes you. Dont worry about the other guys feelings i mean you can still be his friend. He will just have to face that facts, your not that into him.
Good luck, i hope my advice helps!!
2006-11-11 10:35:18 · answer #6 · answered by - 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
every girl has been there yeah you dont wanna hurt the other ones feelings cuz you like someone else. this is want you should do talk to the one that you dont wanna date and explain to him that its not that you dont like him its just that you see you two as friends at the time being. dont give him false hopes just tell him how you feel and if he doesnt like it then he was no good for you in the beginning. i wish you the best of luck
2006-11-11 10:33:40 · answer #7 · answered by wildncrazy_bi_gurl 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
No, it means you have a heart.
You have to do what makes YOU happy. If you worried about everyone else's feelings, you will never be happy yourself. You can "go out" with whoever you want. You aren't committed to either. If either of them can't handle that, it will show their maturity level and should make your decision easier.
2006-11-11 10:30:29 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
Make a decision or you might lose them both. Choose the one you like the most, the other guy will get over it (if you're really worried, have a heart to heart with him).
2006-11-11 10:33:02 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 1⤋
I think you should go with the one who makes your heart melt the one you cant stop thinking about and if you feel this way about one you wouldn't worry about the other because he means more to you than the other.
2006-11-11 10:30:07 · answer #10 · answered by dejohn m 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋