Falling in love with a satanism chick ... should I?

Question

I met this beautiful, clever, sensitive, outgoing girl and it was like something clicking inside me and saying ..."this one is the one".

So, I go the whole "guy falls in love" way ... nice chatting, laughs, going out to the cinema, the discos, etc. No hurries, because I seriously like this girl and I am thinking long term.

Then, she tells me that she is into satanism. We spoke a little about the matter and that's it. No big deal. No fuss. BUT.... I have been wondering how far I should go with this girl.

I am not scared of Satanism. I consider myself a educated, mature, open minded person. Sorry, no offense meant, but I consider Satanism just pure nonsense, like scientology. She is not a heavy metal teenager or a rebellious college chick. She is a professional woman, but she still believes that stuff: black bibles, black mass..

So I have serious doubts on how durable my relationship could be with a girl that someday could be consagrating my kids to Satan.

Comments?

Hey ... some of you girls nailed the point: Kids

I am not afraid at all about satanism, in fact I just consider that a fade, a modd, a kind of philosphical fade. Was it just me, I would go for this girl the whole way, because I really like her, but I am sure she is not going to "convert" me, so was this a short term realtionship... what the heck?, Satanism or not I love her

But, I was thinking in this girl like "family stuff" and that is what worries me.

One thing is me. Another thing is my future kids. I don't want them getting their head messed with stuff like "Satan is your friend" or self-egotistical stuff.

I wish she was just in a temporal mood with the statnism, but I am afraid she is too old to change :(

Hey ... some of you girls nailed the point: Kids

I am not afraid at all about satanism, in fact I just consider that a fade, a mood, a kind of philosphical fade. I respect people's right to believe what they want to believe.

Was it just me, I would go for this girl the whole way, because I really like her, but I am sure she is not going to "convert" me, so was that a short term relationship... what the heck?, Satanism or not I love her

But, I was thinking in this girl like "family stuff" and that is what worries me.

One thing is me. Another thing are my future kids. I don't want them getting their head messed with stuff like "Satan is your friend" or self-egotistical ideas.

DANG! She is so sweet and nice...I wish she was just in a temporal mood with the statnism, but I am afraid she truly believes that and she is too old to change :(

Answer 1

Take some time and read a little about her beliefs. Then you can make an educated decision about wither or not you could support her religious decision. If you can live with what she believes, even if you don't share the same beliefs, then go for it! If what she believes truly bothers you then kindly back away.

Answer 2

it's a powerful statement to say that you are a satanist. i mean real powerful. there are a lot of things going on inside this girl. any future children would be hugely affected and that is a door most people wouldn't want to open. you might want to study up on it and see what her core beliefs might be.

now for your 'open minded' comment. if you think that you are open minded but believe her religion to be nonsense, that is another huge stumbling block. it's like you super-believe in something and your better half just thinks it's silly. that might be hard for her to deal with.

it sounds like this relationship is doomed to fail. you probably get along well on an intellectual level, but after you get past all that you are going to have to face who you each are at your core.




p.s. my best friend once dated a guy that was a satanist. she went to a meeting? gathering? whatever it is they call it and witnessed a baby, yes i said BABY, being skinned alive. i'm sure they don't all participate in this activity, but the fact that some branches of them do i find terrifying

Answer 3

Unequally Yoked -

2 Cor.6:14 Be ye not unequally yoked together with unbelievers: for what fellowship hath righteousness with unrighteousness? and what communion hath light with darkness?


Pat (ndbpsa)

Answer 4

Dont, she may act sweet now but you dont really know her. People who believe in satanism tend to be more deceitful, no offense to anyone. I am a christian, and i know that you start to act like the people you hang around with, and i dont think you can trust this girl

Answer 5

Think long and in depth before getting any farther involved

Answer 6

Go for it. You never know it could just be a fad. Plenty of adults have phases of finding a religon.

Answer 7

I don't think you want your kids being little satans. haven't you heard? Satan is dEVIL. get it? stay away from this woman. i know you love her, but marriages usually don't last when the ppl have different religions.

Answer 8

run like the wind..no relationship is going to be strong enough to handle that.. she is used to being evil and therefore may use it against you..you can do better.all satininsim is is about worshipping the devil and being evil...

Answer 9

Are you out of your mind?
Run from her as fast as you can? Trust me, you DO NOT want a satanist companion. You will regret it forever!

Answer 10

if she gets mad at you she could poison you or who knows what?