How do I get a guy I am in love with to know how I feel?

Question

This is the thing.... I am 13 year old and there is a boy who goes to my church who knows I like him. I though he liked me but I am not sure. How do I tell him? I am sort of shy around guys. Plus, these mean girls told him I was a lesbian because they hate me. I want him to know how I feel and that I am not gay. Should I just go up to him or do any of you have suggestions? Please help!

Answer 1

Just tell him

Answer 2

You seem like a really, really wonderful sweet young lady.
It is wonderful, that the young man, goes to the same church, as you do.
Yes, by all means, tell him....it's hard, I know.....tell him like you wrote in here.....maybe, as he is walking out, ask him could I talk to you for a minute.........the parents, probably want to know...
mmmm, Just kindly ask the parents could I speak to ......... for a moment...and tell him what is going on.....
Do not let those girls get to you. They are jealous of you!
Another suggestion is....write a note, explaining everything, like you did here, and give it to me while you are all leaving church.
Honey, you have to speak up for yourself..in the note, give him your telephone number, so you can also speak to him, without getting those butter fields in you stomach, or your heart racing.
I fell in love at 14....head over heels.....married when I was 18,
We have 2 beautiful children..now 49 and 48....( I got my
college degree also.) Now they got their Master's Degree's
Do not even think about what those girls are doing, however, like you, I would certainly tell him.
Good luck Honey.....it will work out...however, only you can straighten it out.....God will straighten those girls out....If not,
the path they take in life, doing this so early....I do not think, their life will ever be as good as yours.
Hope this helped a little bit.

Answer 3

I cant really say, first off you are to young to be worried about a guy you should be focused on school instead of falling in love.You have a long lond while for love enjoy being a kid leave those boys alone

Answer 4

At this age boys can be cruel so tell him a private setting. Maybe have your parents invite him and his family over and then tell him in private. Or if you know him well enough find a way to tell him in private a way he will like.

Answer 5

hi.............i will tel you somethink that i think that i will help you.I am 21 years old and i like a gye which come to my church.Firstible when i saw him i fall in love.I had doubt cuze he liked me to.......but how to know this,,no friend help me..everyday i talked with him firstible as e great friend,,during te conversation we looked eachother in a special way..so i understand that he loves me too.I want po say that actions speaks louder than words.So snt listen anyone else just your heart even you are just 13 years old.Your heart willtell you what is the best for you but firstible ga and talk with him and try to be clever to understand smth........i wish you sucess

Answer 6

Tell but if yo 2 shy get 1 of yo friendz 2 tell him good luck!!

Answer 7

First of all honey you are to young to know what love is but honesty is the best policy. I would just go up to him and tell him the deal. Good luck.

Answer 8

At least tell him you're not a lesbo before things get so out of hand that there's no way to convince him otherwise.

Answer 9

i'm sure it is not love at your age but just smile at him and say hi to him. just don't do it when other friends are around untill he starts to show interest at his age he probably dosn't want to be embarassed around others that could tese him and not let his real feeling show.

Answer 10

I agree with Just Me Baby.
but if you are going to, just tell him.