so i met this girl off a free dating site, i said would u like to chat, she said yes, so i asked her for her aim and she said no u should call me. and she gave me her number. so i called, we talked about college our majors, siblings, she commented on my shirtless pic on my profile, asked if i was shy, etc etc.. then she said she was gonna take a shower "do u want me to call u back?" i said "yea sure" so she said ok talk to you then, i say the same, hang up. oh yeah and during the convo shes like "ive never asked out a guy..its against my beliefs" i ask "so u always wait for the guy to ask out u ?" she says "yeah im traditional when it comes to dating. "
she said shed call back i guess after her shower. but she never called. should i have called her? she said with my shirt off i look like tom green....i said is that good or bad, i think she said good. what do u think? she also kept saying "hmm i see" and giggling to things i would say sometimes. and kept saying "hey u were suppose to
2006-11-11 09:35:15 · 4 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
...call me few days ago, right??" and she was reading my profile like "oh cool uve been to london...oh ure going to canada when?"
so i just got home from work...its 2:30 pm...should i call now, tonight, wait for her?
do u think shes interested and is just seeing if i wanna call her?
2006-11-11 09:36:54 · update #1
Instead of wondering--CALL HER BACK! She gave you a clue and she expects you to call her...Go do it now.
2006-11-11 09:38:25 · answer #1 · answered by Miss J 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
stop wasting time and asking questions on here... just call her already!!!! If she blows you off, big deal, cut your losses and move on. If she talks to you, you win! Don't be a stalker, you can play a little cat and mouse.
If you call, and she doesn't answer, don't leave a message the first time--it comes off as desperate. Wait a day or two and call back, if no answer again--leave a short message... "hey this is .... I talked to you a few days ago, and was thinking I wanted to talk to you again. I'll be home.... so call me back then if you have a chance. My number is ...." Play it cool. If she calls you back, you're doing good. If she doesn't, try one more time in a week or so and then cut the cord if there is no response.
If she's there and answers the first time you call, just talk for a bit, when the conversation gets awkward or better yet, before it does cut it off, tell you have to go (to work, to something for school, out with friends) and tell her you'll call her back. If she's traditional like she says, she'll appreciate the fact that you're taking charge. Don't call her more than a couple times a week, make her wait and miss talking to you. Also, don't call unless you have something to talk about. Nothing is worse, or more of a turn off than a dull or lagging conversation.
Good luck, take charge and be confident (confidence is a primo turn on for girls). And just remember, if you met her online you have nothing to loose. She can't make fun of you to people you know, and if things turn sour you haven't really lost out on anything--just learn from your experiences and move on! Now go on and call that girl!!!!
2006-11-11 17:49:27 · answer #2 · answered by Balou0017 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
the reason y she mayb didnt call back because she was shy or somthin or she jus want u to ask her out and if if u should call yea go right ahead it will mayb make her day
2006-11-11 17:42:12 · answer #3 · answered by hot carmel 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i say U call her
she seems sacrcastic, it doesnt mean she doesnt like u
She drop hints for u to call her.
if she says she'll call u back..let her call u back.....
maybe u should casually ask her to meet. lunch somehting casual and see where it goes from there
2006-11-11 17:42:45 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋