Ok about a year ago one of my favorite cuzzins told me that she liked this one boy alot. i didnt really pay attention to it. but one year later me and that boy she liked started talking to me. now we really like eachother so i asked her if she still likes him and she said yes. he asked me to be his girlfriend and i said no because i thought family comes first. but im head over heals for him and i dont know what to do!
catherine age 17 boston,mass
2006-11-11 09:28:33 · 15 answers · asked by heatbroken75 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Ok about a year ago one of my favorite cuzzins told me that she liked this one boy alot. i didnt really pay attention to it. but one year later me and that boy she liked started talking to me. now we really like eachother so i asked her if she still likes him and she said yes. he asked me to be his girlfriend and i said no because i thought family comes first. but im head over heals for him and he hates my kuzzin. i dont know what to do!
2006-11-11 09:49:38 · update #1
Follow your head. What girl really wants a boy who doesn't want her in return? Your cousin should move on and stop wasting her time on someone who doesn't reciprocate her affection.
2006-11-11 09:32:02 · answer #1 · answered by Sweetchild Danielle 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋
You should probably talk it out with your cousin. Maybe she doesn't like him enough that she'll get angry if you say yes. The guy I like is possibly liking my best friend and all I do is just not think about it. If your cousin is mad, well, you have to decide: is family really more important? You don't want to be unhappy and your cousin will get over it at some point.
2006-11-11 17:31:03 · answer #2 · answered by Rawr_Kitty 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
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2006-11-11 17:29:45 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
well dont fight over the guy but do things for him like bake cookies or invite him to go on a family outing with your family.is he presentable to meet your dad?if not forget the outing.there are more guys out there if you lose him so dont freak. and dont cry about it aroung your parents if it should happen. glty good luck to you.
2006-11-11 17:33:35 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Say yes, she will eventually forgive you. Your happiness comes first. You do not have to tell us where you are or your name. In this case, age does not matter either.
2006-11-11 17:31:36 · answer #5 · answered by T-Roc 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
uhhh...ur so sweet...i think u should date him if you really like him..im sure she'll understand. it would be selfish of her to stop love when the guy's not even interested in her. sit down and talk to her..dont ask her permission..just let her know that your going to date him but you still love her.
2006-11-11 17:34:10 · answer #6 · answered by faheetah101 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
if i were you two i would let him decide and if he plays games then he's really not worth it.. being related you should support "his" choice of who he wants.. chances are neither of you will end up marrying him, so don't waste to much time fighting over who gets him. and remember it's his choice.. good luck!
2006-11-11 17:32:24 · answer #7 · answered by ~broken~ 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I say you should try to 4get about him and get on with your life or you could be rude and tell your cuz to back off. Your choice.
2006-11-11 17:35:15 · answer #8 · answered by Ichigo 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Talk to your cousin.
Explain what's gone on between you and this boy.
Then, if you feel comfortable enough, ask her if she wouldn't mind if you went out with him.
2006-11-11 17:32:27 · answer #9 · answered by Angel21Baby22 (#11, #18, & #20!) 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
lets see what we can do..... got it! this is a good one well you know what comes first your coz or your guy if you can`t choose talk to both first talk to you guy then talk to your coz choose whats best
2006-11-11 17:40:01 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋