My boyfriend of 3 months is not feeling well so he's been hanging at home. I went to visit with him last night and stayed for a few hours. He was kinda tired so I decided to leave. On my way back I made plans to get dinner and hang with some friends. Actually, I had a blast. I ran tino a bunch of people I hadn't seen for awhile and we stayed out until 3ish. When my boyfriend called me this morning he asked what I did after I left his place, so I told him and he was pissed? I don't get it it wasn't like I was out trying to hook up or anything like that! He said he is hurt and I should have told him I was going to go out, blah, blah, blah. His best pal was at the bar I was at, and he asked why I decided to go there b/c I knew his friend would be there, ect. He says he has a hard time trusting me. To make a long story short my cell battery needed to be charged so the conversation was cut short. We haven't spoke since. Am I wrong to think he should call to apologize for being a jealous ***
2006-11-11 09:23:43 · 20 answers · asked by kimmyk 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
You silly moo it sounds to me as if the guy has depression or ME/CFS but you don't give a shite do you. If I could talk to him I'd tell him to drop you like a hot potato. You sound like a right essex gel
2006-11-11 09:30:50 · answer #1 · answered by Espacer 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Unless you've given him a reason to act that way, yes he does owe you an apology. It definitely sounds like he's the jealous type and believe me, it'll get worse, before it get's better. You need to sit him down and talk about his jealous ways, before it get's out of hand. Some guy's want to control you and monitor your every move, but it doesn't have to be like that. Pretty soon, you'll be arguing all the time, because sooner or later, he'll accuse you of doing this and that, when you're not. Every couple, rather you're married or not, needs time away from each other, to do things with their own friends, there's no rule that says couples should be under each other 24/7, you'd lose your minds, if that were the case. Have that talk with him and nip it in the bud, good luck.
2006-11-11 09:36:22 · answer #2 · answered by A_WWE_FAN_4LYFE 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
He obviously feels insecure, after all you've only been together three months so you don't really know one another yet. Either ring or visit him and calmly tell him what you have told us all. I don't think he's being controlling at all, just a little unsure of where he stands with you. If you care about him then go reassure him. Good luck.
2006-11-11 09:36:30 · answer #3 · answered by Sue S 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Get rid of him. If you've only been together for three months and hes already saying he doesnt trust you you need to go find someone who does. You dont need to carry around all that emotional baggage that comes with a relationship like that.
2006-11-11 09:30:49 · answer #4 · answered by xOxshellyxOx 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I hope his behaviour is because he is feeling unwell at the moment if not then i think this may be the start of spiralling controlling behaviour that will just get worse.
Have you ever done anything to make him mistrust you? if not i would seriously re-consider this relationship
2006-11-11 09:29:07 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
How would you feel if you was not feeling well and he went out with his mates to a bar and dinner and saw your best mate there??? Would you be angry/hurt/jealous? if the answer is yes then thats how he is feeling! if the answer is no then you dont give a sh!t do you!
2006-11-11 10:09:27 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
Not really... If he is always telling what to do that is a little controlling. Also, if he gets pissed everytime you hang out with neone exept him he is deffinitly too controlling!
2006-11-11 09:28:33 · answer #7 · answered by Holly Ann 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
He might just be feeling low coz he's ill. Talk to him about it.
But see this as a warning... if he makes a habit of it then lose him quick. Next he'll be telling you who you can talk to and checking your phone behind your back!
2006-11-11 09:31:18 · answer #8 · answered by Ah! 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
probably feeling sorry for himself as he was stuck in and u were out........i would probbaly be the same (selfish as it is) but would realise i was wrong. Doesnot mean he is controlling just maybe was a bit jealous. Maybe text and say u miss him.......
2006-11-11 09:27:05 · answer #9 · answered by lost 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Hes trying to make you feel bad, he owes you a "sorry im a idiot" however if he cant trust you then perhaps you should find someone who will trust you.
2006-11-11 09:36:03 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋