i broke up with my girlfrien last nite, i still love her alot and she still loves me and wants me back, but even though i love her with all my heart, i can't be with her right now, because i like another girl and she likes me and we are kind of getting things on, she's a great girl and evrything, but i'm not sure it was rite to break up with my girlfrien for a girl i just like, really like. i want to get back together again with my ex, but i don't know if i really want to? what must i do?
2006-11-11 09:10:04 · 10 answers · asked by ladybaby 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Well ... you can always weigh the two girls.
By that, I mean, what do each of them give to you?
Does the "new girl" give you the emotional support and trust and all that jazz as much as your ex did/does?
Or is this new girl just a crush and you're only physically attracted.
If you REALLY think that this new girl has something to give to you, then you NEED to sit down and talk with your ex and explain the situation and how you're feeling. You have to tell her that you're unsure about the current relationship between the two of you but that you still really care for her. You just want to see what this other girl has to offer. You may find the new girl is just nothing but a pretty face and end up missing your ex.
In that case ... I think you need to know what to do. ;)
2006-11-11 09:17:07 · answer #1 · answered by Imperfect 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Take a break from both, stay friends, no foolin' around. Work it out in your mind. Pro's and Con's of each. Go for the one you would be happiest with. Don't play games with them, don't see them each secretly. That isn't fair to anyone and you will lose out in the end. You're confused right now, so step back, take some time, relax. Who knows maybe you won't want either one, maybe you'll find someone who really clicks with you. On again, off again only hurts you and them in the long run.
2006-11-11 17:16:27 · answer #2 · answered by d b 1 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Dont leave the person u love for the person u like, cuz the person u like will leave u for the person they love!
2006-11-11 17:13:07 · answer #3 · answered by Jackie V 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
The very first thing you need to do, is make up your mind. Then perhaps you'll be able to make a decision.
2006-11-11 17:13:14 · answer #4 · answered by iyamacog 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
there's a saying and i want to give it to you in case you never heard it....
dont leave the one you love for the one you like
for the one you like
will leave you for the one they love...
you like/love them both....but....you have to look deep in your heart and KNOW who u really love more...
2006-11-11 17:14:47 · answer #5 · answered by J Philla 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Follow your heart, who do you love more?
2006-11-11 17:13:03 · answer #6 · answered by Nick C 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
get back with your ex because your just going to be thinking about about her and its going to drive you crazy you wont be able to think right. r u a lez
2006-11-11 17:16:22 · answer #7 · answered by Christian c 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
chose the one who loves you and is near to your heart.
2006-11-11 17:22:22 · answer #8 · answered by creed 1 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
u cant have all.
you need to choose.
and choose wisely.
and stay with your choice.. dont start breaking hearts
2006-11-11 17:14:57 · answer #9 · answered by applejuice 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Go out with each other.. all of you lovely young girls
2006-11-11 17:12:19 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋