how do i win the heart of a woman that i love and get her to leave her boyfriend?

Question

she's 29 with one child and the boyfriend is 34.at first we became friends for 2 months then it graduated to kissing when we were play wrestling.then it became sexually intimate for 2 blissful weeks when he caught us getting dressed after sex.i am so in love with her and she has said the same to me during sex and when we just talking.she tells me their is no love in their relationship and they're just going through the motions for their kid who is7.

after he caught us it's communist china in their house,she's not allowed to email or phone me or do simple things like take out the garbage.

any advice please?

Answer 1

if u really love her, u will back off. she needs space right now while she figures things out. it will be easier for her if u just back out for a moment. not forever, just a little bit. let things settle down at home until she can talk to her husband rationally and consider a break up. and when appropriate, come back. if u keep bugging her, then she will be in lockdown mode forever and her bf will probably beat u up. seriously.

so give it some time and if u really love her u will wait for her. but if her bf is crazy and wont let her do anything and is potentially going to hit her, then i would get her and her son out of there and staying with ANYONE but YOU bc u know her bf would go to u first. and then i would call da police. this is an ONLY IF he is physco, which it sounds like he is.

Answer 2

Well, your probably not going to like hearing this BUT.....if she cheated on her husband, what makes you think she won't cheat on you? Your special? Better think that over real good. Plus-where is she? Still with him right? She has a brain of her own, NO one controls another person, she can leave if she WANTS too. She hasn't, so that should tell you something. She maybe unhappy with her marriage, but your NOT the answer to HER happiness, I think it's a little deeper than that. Going to you will only be running from her problems. How would you like for someone to invade your marriage, shame on you!!!

Answer 3

How have you ever guys hung out and what makes you like her??? If she has a bf do not a relationship and if you have already got, then consider about this query--- if she is dishonest on him, do you real consider she will not do the identical to you?? When a relationship used to be started with dishonest, most circumstances that's the way it ends. Anyhow, I desire you the nice of success.

Answer 4

I hate people like you! Let them work out there relationship on the own. You are so pathetic to take some one else's lover. You are truly sad to think she won't someday do the same to you or worse. Get a friggin life!!!

Answer 5

Okay HOMEWRECKER you should leave her alone but ask a friend to watch out for her just in case their relationship becomes to like comunist china as u put it! N she can do anything she wants to its her choice to listen to him. And god what were u doin play wrestlin with someones girlfriend?!

Answer 6

Well it is hard to break up a happy home. But if you wait tell her husband is out of line. that's when she will not want him anymore. But then again she is a mother and the kids need both parents. You wound'nt want that to happen to you.

Answer 7

take her to the USA
leave run, hide
defect with the kid/s

just do it..do it now

good luck

Answer 8

Tell her to leave him until she does leave her alone !

Answer 9

tx for the points

Answer 10

figth for her