I still like this guy named Caesar, and I haven't seen the guy named Alan again. Caesar is a guy I've liked for about 4 months. Alan is a guy that came to my birthday party, and he seemed to like me. My ex was there too. One day, we went to school, and at lunch, my ex told me that Alan kept asking him if he should ask me out. I got creeped out. In about the second week of school, I told Caesar that I liked him. After that, everything got very confusing. He flirts with me, and I flirt back, but when my best friend asked him out for me(I didn't want her to), he said that he didn't know, but he never said no. On Thursday, we kept flirting at an assembly we had. I sat next to him. I don't know what to do; my friend Monelle thinks he wants me to ask him out, directly to his face. I don't wanna do that, because then I might get rejected, and I won't be able to cope with that.
I have absolutely no idea what to do. If you have any advice, PLEASE post it. Any help would be really appreciated!
2006-11-11 08:33:13 · 7 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
As scary as it is, you should talk to him about your feelings.
Fear of rejection is major. I understand how you feel. But if you never try, you'll never know.
If he says no, then move on to someone else. But if he says yes, then it was worth the risk.
Be brave, ask him.
Good luck. :)
2006-11-11 08:38:00 · answer #1 · answered by J~LOO 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you can't cope with him saying no then you have major issues. Another thing if he is an ex don't go back to him that's just stupid because you'll end up having another problem. Leave that Alan guy alone to because if he doesn't have the balls to ask you out when he likes you he's a wuss. I never ask a girls ex for permission unless it is one of my friends that is the ex. Back to your ex he knows you like him so why didn't he ask you out by now. I think you should find a confident guy that you have no history involving your ex or Alan. Tell your friend she needs to stay out of your relationship life and thats just that. You will probably think what i had to say is mean but that is the real world girl so get used to hearing real advice and not just what you want to hear. Good luck with your triangle of a situation.
2006-11-11 16:47:48 · answer #2 · answered by michael a 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
ok what you have to do is muster all of your confidnece and ask him. dont wait. it will seem liek there is never a right time. so just do it!! dont delay, the longer you wait the more nervous you will get and the more you know you wont do it. just do it! if he rejects you big deal, what will really happen, iys not the end of the world.
2006-11-11 16:42:04 · answer #3 · answered by thecoolguy 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
well if you don't have his number GET IT! it never hurts to talk on the phone with eachother.. and it will give you a good boost.. start hanging out like after schoool with eachother, things will start to change nd probably he will be the one asking you out! but if you are brave enough you aask him! but your right if he does reject you ( hopefully he won't) its hard to deal with it couse the situation starts getting weird soo take it step by step.. slowly wind him close to yoou and WALLA! hoepfully what i just told you will help y ou with everything
good luck.
2006-11-11 16:40:40 · answer #4 · answered by simplexdisaztr 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
hey! :s, wow that is really confusing... But I think you should cathc the guy alone, and just talk to him... Maybe go out for lunch or ice cream. tell him how you feel.
2006-11-11 16:39:26 · answer #5 · answered by Tanya I 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
just ask him out because you know what you r going to be missing with this guy!! so just give it shot and it kind of sounds like he likes you!!!
2006-11-11 16:37:15 · answer #6 · answered by butterfingerrulez!!! 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Just ask him to his face.
...And why was that Alan kid even mentioned!?
2006-11-11 16:36:43 · answer #7 · answered by No O 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋