i am such a control freak when it somes to relationships.how do i stop?it seems like every man i come across cant handle me!
2006-11-11 08:32:58 · 12 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
im sorry but i honestly feel that no man can handle me
2006-11-11 08:33:57 · update #1
:(
2006-11-11 08:34:16 · update #2
i look sweet on the outside,trust me
2006-11-11 08:35:12 · update #3
well, you shouldnt try to change yourself into something your not. that being said, you can try to improve yourself. tell yourself that it is ok to let someone else decide every once in a while. the world won't end if you let your date decide what movie to see. the worst that can happen is that you won't like the movie. you will find out that it isnt a big deal. good luck!
2006-11-11 08:41:12 · answer #1 · answered by a 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I had this problem before but I finally met my match!You can't change unless you are really willing to.Women in America are so independent and they forget that the man is supposed to be the superior.It may take a little bit of time but when the right man comes along you need to force yourself to be a litttle laid back.I was the head of my household for 13 years.I am now married to someone else and everything is 50 50.Thats good enough for me!Try to lay back a little!!
2006-11-11 16:48:41 · answer #2 · answered by yesmaam 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You know its weird when someone states they know what their flaw is, but then they don't seem to know how to stop doing it. It's simple, you want a respectful relationship? then STOP DOING IT. Or at least get some professional help to find out why you are such a control freak.
p.s. men don't need to "handle" women.
2006-11-11 16:38:25 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
OK YOUR NOT A FREAK YOUR AN INTELLEGENT WOMAN AND VERY NICE AND SWEET AND U JUST HAVE COME ACROSS THE WRONG GUYZ SO WHEN U COME ACROSS THE RIGHT ONE U WILL KNOW CAUSE YOULL GET THAT FEELING IN YOUR HEART AND SOME TIPS FOR DATING FROM ME ARE: TALK ALOT ON THE FIRST DATE GET TO KNOW EACH OTHER THEN MAYBE MORE LATER ON AND BE GENTLE NO WOMAN HAS TO BE A FREAK OUR LIL SECRET IS THAT NO WOMAN IS A FREAK MAYBE A MAN IS LOL ! JUST JOKIN!
2006-11-11 16:45:01 · answer #4 · answered by ~Jess~ 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well, I was going to insert a vague but slightly cutting remark, but when I saw you love white boys, well, I thought different. Since I, myself have never known the magic of a black lady, I will have to say that you WILL find somebody to handle you. There are some pretty puss y whipped white boys out there.
2006-11-11 16:46:31 · answer #5 · answered by Shadow 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Stop trying to contol men and learn to contol yourself... No man really wants to have a woman contol him unless he has mother issues and then it's a sick relationship anyways.... A relationship (atleast a real one anyways) has nothing to do with control...
2006-11-11 16:36:49 · answer #6 · answered by sexton 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Screw it just find a guuy that likes to be completely controlled. That's the only situation I see working for you.
2006-11-11 16:39:32 · answer #7 · answered by michael a 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
if you know you are like that, you may find yourself alone a lot. Let your next mate take some control and see how it feels, even if it kills you.
2006-11-11 16:47:05 · answer #8 · answered by cold runner 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
maybe..u havent found a commited guy.. that can reassure you that you dont have to assume and be all controling. i wish my gf was alittle more controlling sometimes..because she barely cares about what happens.
2006-11-11 16:36:20 · answer #9 · answered by itstony 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
trust me there is a guy out there just keep looking!
Good Luck!
2006-11-11 16:36:03 · answer #10 · answered by Shelby Stale Chip 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋