THIS NEW girl started working at OUR Work, she is new to town and no bf BUT has lot of gfs.
WHAT i should do,, i like her very much.
1) Ask her out on date now? keep in mind the risk if she refussed it will creat tension at work and i may loose her even as a friend
2) just be friend and try to know each other and keep flirting,, keeping in mind the risk that some body else may ask her out and she may end up been in love too soon and I will never be able to date her
I am so depreesed , i dont know what to do, so please just vote 1, or 2 ..no comments thanks
2006-11-11 08:26:13 · 33 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
why are you so stress about this girl? you love her? just talk to her and be positive and friendly girls dont like negative and depressed guys because it will depressed them. So just start with some light conversation ask her out, so what if she say no? Its not the end of the world, what is the risk it will create tension at work and lost her as friends? its very normal people date each other is their workplace, i know i do. if she say no and you back off without causing any idiot movement i'm sure she might reconsider to go out with you.
2nd be friend and keep flirting this is a good move, so what if she fall in love with someone else? atleast she's still your friends and you can keep on flirting and wait for her to break up, or you can meet someone else while waiting dont make yourself chain to one person.
finally be happy dude, laugh and enjoy more!
2006-11-11 08:32:21 · answer #1 · answered by jeff 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
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2006-11-11 08:30:27 · answer #2 · answered by michael a 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
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2006-11-11 08:28:40 · answer #3 · answered by batgirlmeg 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
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2006-11-11 08:28:20 · answer #4 · answered by ♥ 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
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2006-11-11 08:31:07 · answer #5 · answered by ღ|l°Coltrane°l|ღ 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
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2006-11-11 08:29:20 · answer #6 · answered by bonkers13642 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
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2006-11-11 08:27:55 · answer #7 · answered by A 3 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Sorry. Neither 1 or 2.
I don't think you are in the right frame of mind to get involved in a relationship right now. Holy! You don't even know this girl. What if she picks her *** and has 3 toes on each foot? You need to deal with your issues before sucking someone else into your life.
2006-11-11 08:29:21 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
plz put how long she's been working at YOUR work. that would help a lot. once you do, i can better answer one or two. thx.
you have asked about this before and i answered it. plz just listen to my advice and DO NOT COMMITT SUICIDE. its the worst thing you could ever do. no one should do this over love. besides, if you committ suicide, she won't ever get the chance to know you. in fact, there was another Q i answered. You can look i up. this guy's wife committed suicide because she found him having sex with her mom. he felt absolutely no remorse, and said he was looking forward to staying with her mom, who had to be twice as old as him. all he said was 'i fell real bad, but i feel like she has forgiven us.' like i said, no real remorse, if his story was true. pls, do not go down her road. she could not bear the loss of love, and she obviously loved him very much to not even try to imagine life without him. i guess thats what they mean by, until death. anyways, that is the worst solution to any problem, and one that you should not even be concidering, if you were serious.
2006-11-11 08:36:44 · answer #9 · answered by Renee Gibson 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Try 2 first and then 1.
2006-11-11 08:27:52 · answer #10 · answered by Webballs 6 · 3⤊ 0⤋