im dating somone older than me his 39 and im 18,we have been seeing each other for 3 months and our relationship has been going well,everything is fine and thats good,we have no problems what so ever
2006-11-11 08:06:21 · 20 answers · asked by ashnat 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
its doesnt matter if people start saying stuff cause im putting this on the internet(brandi) im still going to do whatever i want
2006-11-11 08:18:20 · update #1
and people dont start thinking of me getting pregnant or anything that has to do with that cuz im not that stupid,im ready to go to college and have a career with a scholarship in my hands,these is just another step in the relationship
2006-11-11 08:26:02 · update #2
He is old enough to be your dad! There are sound reasons why this is frowned upon that have nothing to do with tradition or society. The relationship could never be totally equal.
2006-11-11 08:11:04 · answer #1 · answered by Al 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
This is something you have to decide for yourself. A bunch of strangers online can't tell you whether or not it's okay for you to sleep with some 39 yr old man. If you were under 18 then it would be against the law but if you're not? Make up your own mind.
2006-11-11 08:09:46 · answer #2 · answered by Angela G 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
No it's not okay. Your a trophy right now. Once he has you and scores the winning run it's off to win the next one. I really think he is a child predator. Yes your legal but barely. 21 years difference. But you already want to do it so you'll do it. I know you like him and he likes you all that stuff but in the long run your going to miss guys your age. I'm 5 years older than my girlfriend and I met her when she was 19. At that point in my life I was ready to stop partying and be responsible. She was just wanting to get started. 21 years older is crazy. My advice is break it off be for you sleep with him.
2006-11-11 08:14:41 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
There is no reason why a 40 year old should have anything in common with a 18 year old other than sex. So go for it.
2006-11-11 08:12:08 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well that's a big age difference. If I was you make him wait to see if he's really into you or whats in your pants. You know what I'm say-in? If its true after you give it up, that's when the problems could start. So be wise about your decision.=:)
2006-11-11 08:11:24 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Im a male and Im 24 years old. 39 year old guys dont want a steady relationship with 18 year old girls. They only want sex. This is a big big big red flag. Dont have sex with this guy and find someone who is closer to your age.
2006-11-11 08:09:09 · answer #6 · answered by Hal Jordan 2 · 2⤊ 0⤋
I guess, I have to answer a question with a question...
Are you ready for the possibly of getting pregnant? And the responsibilities that come with it?
Only you know that...
2006-11-11 08:23:18 · answer #7 · answered by caasos 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If its OK with you guys about the age difference then I don't see what the problem would be between two consenting adults having sex.
2006-11-11 08:09:40 · answer #8 · answered by RACQUEL 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
for me, i would say no. please don't, save yourself. that's good if everything is doing well with the both of you, you are still young and you are still on the verge of reaching your peak, just wait for the right time, i know this is very conservative, but think about it, don't give up yourself right away. good luck., have a nice day!
2006-11-11 08:11:00 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Dont you think their is two much of an age difference?
I personally think that is sick, but you do whatever you want, afterall you are legal.
2006-11-11 08:09:05 · answer #10 · answered by dreamscrushed 3 · 2⤊ 0⤋