learn to be not so shy around my boyfriend in front of other people?
and
what should i talk about?
how do i start conversations?
2006-11-11 08:03:54 · 5 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Most people start with environmentals, weather, geography. Why not try talking about things that interest you? That would mean topics that would showcase what you are about. Lay off the fashion and make up unless your boyfriend is into that kind of thing.
2006-11-11 08:09:08 · answer #1 · answered by pastor guy 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
There shouldn't be a set agenda about what should or shouldn't be discussed generally. It's not set in stone. Conversations arise spontaneously! Just relax and don't be nervous- that can be mistaken for coldness and in some cases arrogance. Just observe about what people are talking about and join in, offer your insight, opinions etc. If you are around people that are known to you, then you should have a good idea about their interests, so talk about that! Don't put so much pressure on your self!
2006-11-11 08:10:37 · answer #2 · answered by laska 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Start by talking to your boyfriend about being shy. Tell him to try and help you. Maybe he can include you in conversations with his friends, he knows what you have in common with them. To start try to join conversations in progress, don't be afraid to give your opinion, but don't interrupt someone to do it. A simple hi how are you can start a conversation. I found that being able to converse with my family gave me confidence to talk with strangers. So practice...
2006-11-11 08:11:41 · answer #3 · answered by m_haney8145 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
sounds like you havent been goign out for long. why are you shy in front of him in public? treat him like you would in private, because it's not healthy to start a relationship like that. but cars, what you did at the weekend or films are all good, generic topic starters
2006-11-11 08:07:19 · answer #4 · answered by jimi 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
just spend time with him and learn to relax you should beable to talk about anything with him i mean if im with a gf we can talk about anything from sex to polotics and you just talk thats how you start a conversation if he dont talk enoth tell him your sick of always talking to your self talking to eachother and telling eachother what makes you happy is what being with some one is all about
2006-11-11 08:08:53 · answer #5 · answered by thekonassure 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋