Me and my boyfriend have been together for almost two years well last year when he was still in high school him and some friends took a bunch of pictures with this certain good looking female cop up at the school. When I saw them I had a fit! He was in all kinds of kinky positions involving her handcuffs and police stick and she had him pinned on the ground and against her car. They looked horrible. And to make matters worse he posted them on his myspace and all the other guys had left stupid comments about how he needed to "tap that" and other crap that pissed me off. I did NOT like the idea of my man all tangle up with another woman. He however saw NOTHING wrong with it at all. He gets pissed everytime I bring it up and thinks i am insane. I was just wondering if i was wrong in this situation. Girls...would you be upset if your man did this?
2006-11-11 07:59:45 · 8 answers · asked by georgiabelle87 4 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Oh yeah..We were defintaly serious when this happened. And that cop is a real cop workin for our police dept...if i was a ***** i would get her fired.
2006-11-11 08:26:51 · update #1
This female needs to be thankful she still has a job. The pic might not be as kinky as you think he has posted these pic and she could lose her job. Ask him to take the pics down if he doesnt then you need to start looking for another boyfriend what will he post next to top these pics ?
2006-11-11 08:04:20 · answer #1 · answered by justturning40 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I would definately be upset. Especially if this lady was a real cop! If he took these pictures before yall were serious, you cant be mad for that. But you can definately be mad for him posting them on myspace. He sounds like a huge jerk if he is not paying attention to your feelings and its very sad that he would do that. Evaluate things with yalls relationship. Maybe you shouldnt break up with him over this, but if things like this are normal you DEFINATELY should. There are many boys out there, if you could keep one for 2 years you can find other ones. If this is his only screw up then you may just want to confront him, if you have to, put your foot down and make him stop the bs. This behavior is definately not appropriate.
2006-11-11 08:09:32 · answer #2 · answered by GoldenGirl23 1 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Let your boyfriend know that if he does not remove those pictures, you will find a male cop and take pictures with him in compromising positions, and post them on myspace for all his and your friends to see. if this does not bother him enough to do it, then maybe you need to find a new boyfriend.
2006-11-11 08:03:20 · answer #3 · answered by Brento! 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I would be upset with him. Even though they are only pictures, pictures are worth 1000 words. Your are not insane. If I were in your situation I would have a talk with him and find out why he was doing it. Ask him if he would be okay if it were you in the same situation with a guy. I am sure he would be jealous and upset just like you are.
2006-11-11 08:07:40 · answer #4 · answered by boonslilsis 4 · 0⤊ 1⤋
um, yeah. obviously your boyfriend is unphased that he's hurt your feelings. but boys are silly little things. they just have to be cool with their friends. i wish i could tell you they outgrow this crap but trust me when i tell you that a decade later, they will still not see anything wrong with it at all. i think it's important in a relationship to express how you feel, and although i do that plenty, my bf still does what he wants. i think it's rude and selfish of him. good luck to you!
2006-11-11 08:05:23 · answer #5 · answered by green eyed sole 2 · 0⤊ 1⤋
If and when you two get married it only then will it be an issue. Until that time, it is a NON issue. BUT, please bear in mind that that is indeed a two way street. AS they say, what is good for the goose, is good for the gander.
2006-11-11 08:03:58 · answer #6 · answered by Shadow 6 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Oh, please....
Guys like to look at other ladies.
Get over yourself already.
2006-11-11 08:08:51 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 2⤋
just tell him u feel about it.
2006-11-11 08:06:20 · answer #8 · answered by BABY GIRL 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋