Plain and simple, this girl will not answer IMs, calls, etc. It's been 3 days after I might have done something to make her start ignoring me. I've only IMed her twice, both saying sorry. For the record, no - what made her ignore me wasn't that bad at all.
2006-11-11 07:57:28 · 16 answers · asked by PuttheKinKickass 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Go to her door with a cake, flowers in hand, and a card. That's it. But...wait a little bit. Stop calling and communicating with her for a few days and then bring her the goodies.
BUT leave her alone for a little bit, dude! Have you been texting, Iming, calling, etc FOR 3 days? Let her chill out for a bit! If you upset her, she needs some time to unwind!
2006-11-11 07:59:35 · answer #1 · answered by FaZizzle 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Just give her more time. You are going to make her think you are desperate and then she might just make you suffer more. Even though you think what you did wasn't that bad, she obviously feels differently. So, you might even back off and wait until she contacts you. And hey, if more than a week passes, sending flowers might be an option. Good luck.
2006-11-11 08:02:55 · answer #2 · answered by Girasol 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well, without knowing the details, I would say that you have to be patient and consistent. Don't resort to the childish answer of, "If you won't forgive me, then you go **** yourself!" If you truly are sorry, say so and say it in person if possible, but be prepared for her not to forgive you right away, if at all. Also, don't pester her. You'll just drive her away. Try apologizing once in each method (IM, in person, on the phone) then just sit back and wait.
2006-11-11 08:00:22 · answer #3 · answered by Minuet 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Block Your Number......Get a Friend to Call Her and say that ur
really sorry...or maybe shes just seeing how long u can hold on to her...you can stop trying to talk to her for like 2 days and then see if she comes to you.
2006-11-11 08:01:18 · answer #4 · answered by Lyndz 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Okay. I see. So i think "this girl" is annyoned by you at the time. for no reason at all but is just annoed. sometimes a girl can feel weird talking to a guy all of a sudden and needs a break.
2006-11-11 08:00:29 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
do something sweet for her, but don't sound like a broken record and keep saying i'm sorry. show her that you are sincerely sorry, but be subtle. (like being kind even when she when she is only mean to you). let her be the first one to start talking to you. at first it will be like an awkward reunion, but soon you'll be talking like you used.
2006-11-11 08:02:42 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
My little brother did the same thing you're talking about and it annoyed the girl to no end! Back off a little. Let her talk to you when she's ready. The more you push the worse off you are.
2006-11-11 07:59:48 · answer #7 · answered by Angela G 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
She's not interested in you. Move on. This might be the only thing she will respond to. But none the less, it sounds like she's done with you MOVE ON.
2006-11-11 08:00:37 · answer #8 · answered by atcranes 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
well give her a rose n tell her sorry and ask her to spend an evening with u n take her to a romantic setting saying i love u n u r very sorry!
2006-11-11 07:59:32 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Boy you must have really screwed up, or maybe she hasn`t been able to message you back.
2006-11-11 07:58:59 · answer #10 · answered by Sparkles 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋