i have liked this girl for over a couple years now and she keeps dropping hints to me and i gave her a note but then she said better if we stay friends but then again she keeps dropping more hints...what can i do? i am very confused and on top of all of that she still keeps being my friend and being sweet but i just cant help but crying..what shall i do?
2006-11-11 07:53:36 · 9 answers · asked by Victoria 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
u can't make them
2006-11-11 07:55:48 · answer #1 · answered by H A N N A H(: 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It sounds like you have a crush on your friend, which is normal we all get a crush on someone at sometime.
The truth is you can't make anyone do anything, this is a key lesson in life you are learning now, which you will come to see as a good thing.
Your friend is being .... just that a friend, they don't want to loose your friendship, probably because you are a nice person and a good friend to them.
Let yourself see the crush for what it is and value the friendship you have with this person, you sound like a good friend to them. Don't read into what you may believe your friend is saying/hinting or otherwise, if nessary ask your friend to clarify or explain exactly what they mean by any comments that perplex you.
If you are gay or bi make a concious effort to meet someone who is the same.
You sound like a really nice thoughtful friend so take a step back, recognise a crush for what it is and give your friend some space to be just that a friend.
Good luck.
2006-11-11 08:09:51 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
It sounds like she's dropping hints to tease you, and sort of dabble in what it would be like to hook up. But she is unsure of herself right now, and she'll make her own decision in her own time. You cannot force someone. If you want to find out how she really feels though, do this: start giving your attention to someone else. Her reaction to that will tell you how she feels. If she gets jealous, you know she's got an interest in you. If she doesn't care, she's not interested. All the best!
2006-11-11 07:59:09 · answer #3 · answered by Zenchick 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You can't make someone gay or bi. Sexual orientation is something you're born with. A girlfriend of mine has a crush on a guy friend of ours, even though he's gay. I'm sure she'd love to "straighten him out," but she never will.
2006-11-11 11:01:20 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
You can't make your friend gay or bi. That is something she has decide on her own. You can't make anyone be anything or do anything. You two need to sit and have a talk.
2006-11-11 07:58:21 · answer #5 · answered by boonslilsis 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Except what she said and if you like her enough you will stay friends with her and except what you get. People don't just change to being gay if shes gay then she eventually realize it.
2006-11-11 08:33:22 · answer #6 · answered by duck p 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Make a move. See what she does.
2006-11-11 07:56:47 · answer #7 · answered by Baby Girl 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
sorry dont know
i am not gay i am looking for a gf i am a boy
2006-11-11 07:55:29 · answer #8 · answered by eric 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
seduce her
2006-11-11 07:56:10 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋