ok so i liked this boy in the beginning of the school year..then he told me he was gay. i got over it. two weeks later he ask me out and i said yes because i thought he was sweet. all of my friends and some people i dont even know hate his guts. my friends think he's just using me to prove that he's not gay. what should i do?
2006-11-11 07:53:08 · 23 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Be his friend, but dont pin any hopes on him becoming straight!
2006-11-11 07:55:42 · answer #1 · answered by huggz 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋
He told you that he is gay and you think he's sweet. That's why he asked you out. Why are you going out with him when you know that he is gay?
He is not going to be a boyfriend in the normal sense. Unless you want a gay boyfriend, you should not continue the relationship. Maybe just be friend with him and that's it. He asked you out because you know the truth and you still like him so he feels comfortable with you.
2006-11-11 15:18:42 · answer #2 · answered by wondering 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
countless your suspicion of him being gay seems to be in line with stereotypes. What music a boy likes and the reality that he expressed an opinion on a towel would not make him gay. He does sound like he's delicate and "in touch along with his female section" yet truthfully that is component of the clarification you cherished him interior the 1st place! the only factor you're able to do whether that is aggravating you is consult from him approximately it. don't be too direct like merely asserting "Are you gay?" yet the two don't be too circumspect approximately it. make confident he's conscious what you think of, what you experience and what you're nervous approximately. undergo in ideas he's a guy, immediately "that's the difficulty, what's the answer?" style questions artwork suitable for us. in spite of everything is asserted and achieved even with the undeniable fact that in case you experience this style and you nevertheless experience this style you have gotten to settle for that he merely isn't the only. i understand that sounds terrible yet once you get deeper into this relationship and nevertheless have those doubts that is going to reason difficulty later down the line. I must additionally point out out that gay adult males could have intercourse with women human beings. there are various adult males obtainable who've been married and had toddlers and then come out as gay. and you realize what you're able to do to have toddlers! Any healthful guy can get an erection with extremely mind's eye and intensely actual stimulus.
2016-11-23 15:59:58 · answer #3 · answered by ? 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Can't you just be friends with him? I don't understand why your friends hate his guts. If it's because he's gay, that is so sad. I think you and your "boyfriend" simply need to make sure that you both understand what your relationship is going to be. At this point, it seems like he needs a friend more than anything else. Good luck.
2006-11-11 07:58:37 · answer #4 · answered by Girasol 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
first of all if u know a guy is gay why r u messin with him. some diseases are known from gay guys dont know the percentage but more and likely it may come from them than a straight guy. but yeah, duhhhhh, he's using u. think about it since he's gay and he asked u out then he's confused he doesnt even know what he wants which means he's gonna be ou there looking for both m/f just because he's curious. Girl,, get AWAY!!!!!!!!!
2006-11-11 07:59:36 · answer #5 · answered by imthabomb98 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Why do people hate his guts? Cuz he's gay? Well... considering the suicide rate for gay teens is 60% above the average... he may have realized that he should not have revealed this little fact about himself because life is hell if you are a gay teenager. For his sake, tell people he's the best sex you've ever had and he's straight. Being gay in high school (or whatever school you are in) is a nightmare.
2006-11-11 07:56:15 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 1⤋
I think you should ask him whether or not he was being serious when he told you he was gay the first time. He may or may not tell you the truth, but if he denies it , but acts nervous or defensive, there's a good chance that he is, and maybe he's just having second thoughts about letting everyone know that he is.
2006-11-11 07:57:48 · answer #7 · answered by doodlebugg 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
He said he was gay. He saw that you could be a friend and asked you out. It doesnt have to be a date it can be just two friends hanging out. I dont think he is trying to prove to others that he isnt gay. He doesnt have to prove himself to anyone not even your friends.
2006-11-11 07:56:17 · answer #8 · answered by justturning40 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Why would you get romantically involved with someone who has admitted he is gay? I don't get it.
Another thought.... maybe he's NOT gay, but originally told you he was gay to get out of your radar. hmm. If so, why has he changed his mind about you?
He sounds like a player any way you look at it. Run. Run as fast as you can!
2006-11-11 07:58:08 · answer #9 · answered by Yinzer from Sixburgh 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Eh, the guy might be having an identity crisis, as long as he treats you well, like a girl should be treated from a proper boy than don't listen to what they have to say. However, if you do find out your being used, leave the realtionship
2006-11-11 07:55:59 · answer #10 · answered by mary j 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
He told you he was "gay" and you "got over it" ??
Did you think he got over being gay ?
I suppose you can go out with him if you want and you
guys may become good friends and have a good time
but don't plan on making him a boyfriend...
2006-11-11 07:57:20 · answer #11 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋