I talked to my X-Gal on Tuesday and we cleared some things up. I sent her flowers on Thursday and as of today no call from her. what gives, or should I call?
2006-11-11 07:48:13 · 7 answers · asked by volkswagenf 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
you should call, but keep it casual, just ask how her day was and stuff like that , but dont ask if she got the flowers cuz thats like saying "your welcome" before someone sais thank you, you know? Make the call brief and tell her youll talk to later, shell prolly be like "why isnt he mentioning anything about the flowers?" and she'll probably be a little confused and then might call you back to find out what is up! and thats were you make your man move and turn of the charm that got yall together in the frist place...
hope it works!
2006-11-11 07:55:17 · answer #1 · answered by MaRShmellOw DON-DON 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Why in God's name did you send your ex flowers? She's an ex, and an ex for a good reason.
Here's the skinny. Right now, she probably thinks the flowers are from another suiter; ignoring the card altogether. That's how girls think after they have broken up with someone. The last thing in the world anyone would imagine would be an ex sending flowers or love notes. Can you say stalker?
You need to let this one go, and if she ever asks you about the flowers, tell her you ordered them before the two of you broke up… and even though it's a blantant lie, lie, lie, and lie some more.
Sorry!
2006-11-11 07:55:16 · answer #2 · answered by diagofaldi 2 · 0⤊ 1⤋
She is your ex for a reason. Give her sometime then call and ask her did she get the flowers. You cleared some things up but not everything let her know you want to try again.
2006-11-11 07:52:08 · answer #3 · answered by justturning40 4 · 0⤊ 1⤋
I can sympathize with you because I am going through the same thing right now. every time i call by xbf, he says he's busy and he'll call back later, but he never does. he doesn't tell me anything anymore. I still love him, but if I asked if we should get back together, they would all say no, he's moved on. in your case, you're the guy, and that's a lot different. it seems like the guy always has to make the first move. at least, traditionally. you have this, now don't let anything stop you. call her and tell her how you feel, before she moves on completely, if she hasn't already.
Good luck and God bless!
2006-11-11 07:55:40 · answer #4 · answered by Renee Gibson 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If she's your ex, sending her flowers probably wierded her out and made her think you thought there was a chance you'd get together again, but that might not be what she is thinking at all.
2006-11-11 07:51:10 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋
Give her a call and see what's going on . You won't know anything till you talk to her. Why play a guessing game ? Call her!
2006-11-11 07:50:40 · answer #6 · answered by IT'S JUST ME ! 7 · 0⤊ 1⤋
I am sorry, she doesn't care anymore about you. I am sure that there are beautiful girls that wait for your call.
2006-11-11 07:55:54 · answer #7 · answered by Melany 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋