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me and my husband have been married for 5 years. we have four kids that are 5, 3,2 and 3 months. We really like to have sex. After our children go to bed, we have sex. almost every night. he has a penis on the larger side and i wear a size c cup. he is very romantic but sometimes it gets annoying. when we are in public he always kisses me and touches my boobs. he'll also grab my butt and tell me how hot i look. people see us and its a little embarrassing. one night our kids were still awake and watching a movie. our 5 year old boy walked in on us while we were having sex. so did our 3 year old girl. we were really into it and licking and groaning. i was wondering how to tell my kids about it. my husband thinks we should show them. he showed my 5 year old his penis and showed the five year old his. i don't know what to tell my girl?

2006-11-11 07:27:22 · 19 answers · asked by skye S 1 in Family & Relationships Singles & Dating

19 answers

That is the totally wrong way to tell your kids about sex. You don't show your 5 year old your penis. At 5 you don't tell them anything, if you have to tell them that you guys were just horse playing. Then when they are about 13-15 then you tell them about sex. They are way to young to get the concept about sex.

2006-11-11 07:30:55 · answer #1 · answered by unglory2006 2 · 8 1

Don't worry. Why don't you do some research on parenting tactics dealing with sexual conversation with your children. It never hurts to be prepared and you might feel a bit more comfortable and confident once you've read how to describe the birds n da bees so that the child isn't scared, disgusted or confused. As for your husband groping you in public - just explain to him that there is a time and a place for it. It's uncomfortable for you and you would like him to exercise some restraint. Good luck !!

2006-11-11 15:32:52 · answer #2 · answered by Sasha 3 · 0 1

Talk to your husband and ask him to just tone it down while you guys are in public. and about talking to your kids...do whatever feels right to you. I personally think that 5 and 3 is a little too early to learn about that stuff, but seeing as they walking in on you and your husband i would just explain to them that it's natrual and infrom them more when they're at a more appropriate age.

2006-11-11 15:34:05 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 1 1

I'm sure your kids already know much more than you give them credit for, and I'm sure your behavior and your husbands will end up with your kids spending their adult life in therapy. Exposing children to sex too early, or not taken precautions to make it private, can be bad for them and is considered a form of sexual abuse by some.

2006-11-11 15:31:54 · answer #4 · answered by jen 4 · 4 1

will basically u r screwed in a pinch situation.i do not recomend although the act ur husband did,coz it does not help,i would go sit with the kids with my husband,and talk to them and tell them that what u saw happening between ur parents is adult only stuff,and must not be practiced by young people less then 18,and if they have any further questions,answer them honestly.

2006-11-11 15:35:01 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0 2

What is the purpose of showing them your sex organs at that age for God's sake? That's very odd. Just teach them to knock before they enter your bedroom, that's all you need to do.

2006-11-11 15:31:33 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 3 1

just make ur husband to stop with all that stuff and make the kids happy 4 a few days and they will forget about what happened.

2006-11-11 15:32:01 · answer #7 · answered by Jason Z 3 · 3 1

get counseling from pro. you are not suppose to invent something
it is known on the professional library. avoid harm from your family it can influence your kids for years to come, be very car full.
and about your husband, the way you react is the way he'll treat you in public, think about it.

2006-11-11 15:35:47 · answer #8 · answered by mukyon1 3 · 0 2

don't tell yr children anything wait 4 them 2 grow. just tell them u were playing r wrestling or anything of dat sort

2006-11-11 15:33:07 · answer #9 · answered by sasha 4 · 2 1

That is really weird. I find it weird that your husband is doing that already. I think it's too early to tell them.

2006-11-11 15:30:57 · answer #10 · answered by leazngurl 5 · 4 1

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