There is a boy in my class, he looks at me all the time and when he learned that i play the piano he suddenly started becomeming interested in my music instrument and he always tries to make me nervous because he takes things i have in my desk and he wants me to chase him but i never do that so he dissapoints and he starts to look at me again for all the seven hours we are together in class in our school. Why does he do that? Does he hates me? I can't understand, i have never done anything bad to him. The most stupid thing is that even though he hasn't the style i like and his clothes are so stupid and old-fashioned and his character makes me mad i like but i don't know if he likes me too. I have never had in my life no relationships because i don't talk to boys or people, i am a nerd. And we are both 17 years old in the last year of High School. Answers please?
2006-11-11 07:24:14 · 10 answers · asked by Melany 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Hey, if you're 17, I suggest get out there a bit more and start paying a little more attention to guys and their silly antics. :)
Nah, he doesn't hate you. Quite the opposite- he likes you, but can't admit to it. Therefore, he shows off and playfully flirts with you. The best thing you can do is flirt back, then after that start talking to him. Become friends first, then see how that goes.
As for you liking but not liking him, that's normal. Sometimes the things you think you hate about a person, those really small things, are actually things you adore and would miss if they were gone. :)
Best of luck, and remember, get out there more!!
2006-11-11 07:28:38 · answer #1 · answered by Riot Act 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
All this teasing and spending time with you is a sign that he likes you a lot. Just tell him straight out that you like him too and that you would like to go on a date with him. You'll make him very happy. Make the most of any opportunities for fun that come along. Don't spend years being nervous and lonely. Smile and give him some encouragement. Make the first move, to get things moving.
2006-11-11 15:33:00 · answer #2 · answered by ricochet 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Im not sure...and dont say ur a nerd!!cuz ur not...ok
u should'nt think so bad about urself...im sure ur really preaty, but just shy. Maby u should try to talk to people, and find friends.
TAKE MY ADVISE...and if that guys hot,talk to him and make a friend. But if hes like a real dork, u wont get popular friends. So dont like him if hes a dork.lol. Hope I helped. :)
2006-11-11 15:32:06 · answer #3 · answered by Liz 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I don't think he hates you. Try returning the favor. When he looks at you, look back at him and give him a little smile or chuckle. His response, even if he doesn't say anything, would say a lot. You could also take something of his, having him come to you if he wants it back.
2006-11-11 15:34:09 · answer #4 · answered by Sym-YA 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I've never had a relationship bcoz of da same probs as yrs but i believe dat gud things come 2 those who wait. as 4 da glancing n staring I think it's becoz he fancies u
2006-11-11 15:28:50 · answer #5 · answered by sasha 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think he likes you. its quite obvious. girl get out there! ur 17 and u dont date or anything. go have fun with life...that doesnt mean have sex and do drugs but just be more outgoing and meet new people. we have one life, live it up! if you're not attracted to him, just get to know him first..he could end up being the love of your life or at least a best best best guy friend. much love ~b
2006-11-11 15:28:50 · answer #6 · answered by ♥ Miss Brittany ♥ 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
he really likes you, the chasing around thing, he wants ur attention, and he probably will ask u out soon. If u like him, then flirt back, or try blushing when he does that stuff, otherwise if u dont like him that way, just ignore him
2006-11-11 15:28:57 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
For the love of god don't talk to him, if you do you could possilbly start a realtionship and create nerd babies.
haha, just kidding, but i dont think he hates you i think he has a \crush on you and just doesnt knwo how to talk to you. relax, get to knwo him, it could be something good
2006-11-11 15:27:53 · answer #8 · answered by mary j 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
he likes you for sure if he takes interest in you. you need to smile when you see him let him know you like him.
2006-11-11 15:31:04 · answer #9 · answered by catsclaw 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
first. talk to guys; they won't bite. second. he likes you. he wouldn't waste his time staring at you if he didn't. flirt with him a bit, see what he says.
2006-11-11 15:27:41 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋