Kat, I can not imagine your pain. It is a good thing that you reach out, probably your last 11 months seem more like 11 centuries, you poor dear, these losses are not fair and they, quite frankly, rattle my faith a bit.
It sounds like your answer is to send out as much love as you can, how absolutely unselfish of you. I hope you are saving some for yourself.
I am sure there is a plan out there somewhere for you and it will come to you when it is time. It sounds like when it is your time to leave this earth there won't be a pair of wings or halo big enough.
We all come into this alone and leave the same way, but that doesn't mean we have to be lonely. May sound strange but, your comments have helped me greatly, today. Have been going through some stuff and you made me understand how very insignificant my stuff is. thanks and god bless.
2006-11-11 08:00:11
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answered by Anonymous
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OMG, I am SO sorry for your loss! What an incredible person you must be to send out that message to the lost and lonely, of which today I think there are many.
Yes I think we all do have days where we feel all alone ,in our own ways. I was sexually assaulted last year and I felt pretty much alone , especially with the reactions I got from some of the police and supposedly educated people. However, as we both know you're never really alone, there's always someone there to listen, if you're willing to pour it out to HIM/HER.
I'm also lucky to have an incredible support network of friends as well as my family doctor and colleagues who have been more than generous with their time and shoulders and ears when I needed to bend them.
Thank you for passing it forward and good luck this holiday season.
2006-11-11 15:30:17
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answered by Lizzy-tish 6
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You should find a group for grief in your area. I lost a Grandson through Medical neglect several years ago. I was helped allot by attending a group like this. One Lady lost her 2 year old grandson when her daughter's boyfriend murdered the baby we were a great help to each other.
2006-11-11 15:49:47
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answered by Pamela V 7
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Katlady, I understand your pain of losing someone close to you. But death happens to us all sooner or later. Your daughter death just happened to be sooner than later. Death is a way for God/nature to take us away from life, the only thing we know. That's why it's so scary but it can't be because Death is part of God's plan in the long run. Life is just temporary. Please listen to the song by Natalie Grant "Held" It make sense if you accept death is the next step to another life. Good luck and may you have a joyful rest of your life.
2006-11-11 15:36:07
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answered by Believe me 3
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Im so sorry to hear about your daughter...I understand that you feel so all alone.. but dont you worry time will heal your sad momments just carry on.
2006-11-11 15:32:28
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answered by lolipop 3
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First let me say i am so very sorry i know how you feel i too lost a child and at times still feel alone.
2006-11-11 15:25:56
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answered by kelly r 2
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thank you for your prayers......and things will get better for you. Cherish the memories you shared with your daughter.
2006-11-11 16:22:04
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answered by gwen 4
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We ARE all alone in the world.
But maybe that's okay, because it makes you appreciate your family and friends all the more.
2006-11-11 15:26:04
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answered by Anonymous
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god bless you.
2006-11-11 16:05:32
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answered by Alicia-brandon15 3
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