because me and my girlfriend was together for 2 years and we are currently getting separate apartments and we had live together for 1 year. And we both decided to be friends but i still love her alot. And what i mean by this question is not being under each other so much is probably a good thing and we both might end up being with different people but i have heard stories of people breaking up and getting back together after being with different people but in my heart i feel like i was a good man i just made a mistake i mean im human just like everyone else. I just hope that with us being friends and being away from each other this will help us appreciate each other more and we might someday get back together and have this every happened to anyone please tell me about it.
2006-11-11 07:22:05 · 16 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
It's over. Move on.
2006-11-11 07:23:52 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
This hasn't happened to me, but I'll give you my opinion on this matter regardless. Was there anything specific that led to the break up of your relationship? If so, then try to find a way to make it up to her and correct it. We're only human, we all make mistakes and none of us are perfect. Time is a healer and maybe as time goes by, past mistakes will be forgotten, remember if it is meant to be and if you are destined to be with this girl, then you'll end up with her, regardless of the circumstances- fate will bring you back together. Perhaps spending time apart could do your relationship good, and will be beneficial to both of you, since it will establish breathing space for you both- time to think things over, and re-evaluate your relationship. Maybe even you will both find new relationships, that can be a good thing, it might either remind you both of how great your relationship was, or maybe it will highlight what was lacking in it. Eitherway, only time will tell, be patient. If your relationship is as strong as you describe it to be, then perhaps, you'll get back together. If not- don't fret, there's a reason for everything, and maybe your perfect partner is just around the corner, but you'll never be able to find her unless you let go of the past
2006-11-11 07:31:44 · answer #2 · answered by laska 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You never know. It's it's meant to be, you'll definitely get back together. In this time apart, it can go either way. Maybe you'll realize that you like being single. Or maybe you guys will miss each other and get back together and live happily ever after. I've been through this before-me and my bf broke up and we both seen other people for a couple of months, but we got back together and have been together ever since(we've been together since we were 12[now 21], broke up 2 years ago, and got back together a couple of months after that) So hey, it CAN happen...
2006-11-11 07:28:39 · answer #3 · answered by Lexy 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Getting seperate apartments will probably help a lot. Living with someone is tough! It all depends on what mistake you made and how willing she is to work on forgiving you. If you actually love her, don't date anyone else until you are clear about her feelings. She might date to see what else is out there. She might come back to you...she might not. Sit down and talk to her about if she views this as a "break" or a "breakup". Let her know your feelings and how you want things to turn out. She'll let you know if she has the same view for the future.
2006-11-11 07:27:34 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
You probably ruined the situation by living together. And to answer your question, yes, it's healthy to be away from each other some. You don't have to be up each other's *** all the time.
2006-11-11 07:26:22 · answer #5 · answered by spelling nazi 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i'm kindof in the same situation hoping that in time that the relationship will start a new chapter. ppl are guna change after they get seperated but if they did love u. they would realize they cant live without you and they need you..sooner or later it might come back.
2006-11-11 07:26:47 · answer #6 · answered by itstony 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Your question sound heartfelt. Maybe you should tell your girlfriend what you told us.
Time will tell. But you need to ask your ex to be honest with you as far as what the future holds. Maybe whatever happened is too much for her to get past FOREVER. If so, you don't want to waste time longing for what used to be.
2006-11-11 07:26:05 · answer #7 · answered by Yinzer from Sixburgh 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Of course not..it will only make you more distant and ruin the entire relationship. Spend as much time as you can with each other to work out your issues.
2006-11-11 07:24:13 · answer #8 · answered by Nicola K 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It might help you but when this has happened to me I always start thinking that it's nice being alone and not with someone nagging at me all the time.
2006-11-11 07:28:21 · answer #9 · answered by mrhealer26 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
ok if you want thsi to work ou with her again. you cannot even be friends. you just cant even tlak to her anymore. date oher people and forget abotu her. let her do the same. if you both realize you had feelins for each other after all that then you should go back out. lol hers a good qoute, it goes along the lines of this. "if your butterifles want to leave. let them free, if they don come back, it wasnt meant to be." i know this advice sucks but tis what you have to do. i know its not what you want to do but its what you HAVE to do. i was in the same position, trust me, just please trust me on this one.
2006-11-11 07:27:48 · answer #10 · answered by thecoolguy 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
well, in my case it didn't work that way although i hoped it would. there are such stories, but you should not rely on that possibilty. if it comes, it should be spontaneous. it'll take time but dont forget that there are two sayings relating to the same thing: "Out sight, out of mind", as well as " Distance makes the heart grow fonder". you pick! :)
2006-11-11 07:27:16 · answer #11 · answered by LadyPandora 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋