Do you ever feel you are all alone in this world?
I don't at the time but have on occasion in the past when things got so rough I didn't feel able to cope so i just want to say to anyone out there that doesn't feel loved today I am sending my Love and prayers to you hang in there and things will get better. I Love You and so does God
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my daughter was murdered 11 months ago and sometimes it's hard to cope and I'm sure we have all had bad days
2006-11-11
07:04:47
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for redneckswoman hey we have all said or done things in life we regret. Dont' beat yourself up over it learn from your mistakes and work on your life as it is now making it the best if only we could turn back the clock but we can;t so we survive and remember what doesn't kill you makes you stronger believe me I know and 11 months later I am still alive didn't think I would survive this but due to rough times in my life childhood and up I think God put some of those trials in my life to strengthen me for these days and those ahead my daughter had also made alot of mistakes inlife and she had a hard time coping with them made bad choices in BFS and no matter what we tried to tell her it wan't enough she stayed with this guy and lost her life be strong and God loves you and forgives you
2006-11-11
07:15:47 ·
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I do have God in my life as well as my husband and 3 other children and 5 grandchildren but some days nothing helps
I was going to a support group but each time makes the pain as it was that 1st day and I am not ready for that raeching out to others always helps there is always someone whose life is worse than yours like a parent whose child is missing and they don't even have closure after many years
2006-11-11
07:33:36 ·
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Yes, all of us have had bad days, but few of us have experienced grieving over a murdered child. My sympathies and thoughts are with you!
We all feel alone sometime, and we all try to deal with that in our own ways. Sometimes by endlessly seeking distractions, sometimes by facing our own fears, doubts, anxieties...
But life requires that of us. Growth is almost always uncomfortable and sometimes very painful, but it's pain for something, if we're honest, if we're true to ourselves and if we genuinely care about the meaning and effect of our lives.
I would much rather experience the pain of facing myself... and accomplishing something of substance in my life... then run away from myself... and at the end of it all, look back and think... "What was it all for? What real difference did I make?"
Good luck to you.
2006-11-11 07:14:45
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answered by Anonymous
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most definitely! I sometimes feel as though I am the only Christian at my school because I seriously don't know of any others and it hurts me to hear everything that goes on in this world. what I have found helpful in times like these is a "bad day buddy." One of my guy-friends and I are "bad day buddies," we call each other whenever we had a bad day or we feel alone. sometimes we even plan a lunch date or something just to talk. so I would encourage you to find someone like that that is kinda in same bost and you know you can trust. the other thing I do is talk to God all the time and give Him all your anxiety. I spend alot of time everyday just reading the Bible, it's such a great comfort and I never close it without learning something. God is all you heed, seek His face when you need help. God bless you!
P.S. I'm sorry for your loss.
2006-11-11 07:21:25
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answered by dizzymisslizzy 2
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Oh my God this is a horrible situation you have been plunged into. Of course you are feeling alone in the world. You need to give an excessive amount of time to prayer God can and will give you the strength to endure your pain. I am so sorry for your loss. I think you need to get yourself into some counseling their are support groups in most of the major cities for parents of murdered children. This may be helpful to you to be around other people who have been in this very same situation. No one really knows this type of pain and or can relate unless they have suffered this same horrible situation. You are in my prayers and I hope you are able to come into contact with some type of support system. You need to find someone to talk to and try to live your life as normal as possible, I am sure your daughter would not want you to be so sad. God bless you and Please seek out some type of counseling and or support groups.
2006-11-11 07:16:46
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answered by ? 7
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I'm sorry about your daughter..your stronger than me. I have felt that way..more often than usual. I've made alot of not so good decisions and now am doing my best to cope with those decisions and make my life better. I'm only hoping for better days. Just keep smiling!
2006-11-11 07:07:57
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answered by Redneckswoman0121 2
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I felt by myself earlier than, peculiarly after a holiday-up. That's flawlessly ordinary. It additionally is determined by the trouble on your lifestyles. For example, in case you are living in an subject you do not associate your self with, it will possibly rather consider lonely. But, if in case you have peers and loved ones you'll be able to depend on, that loneliness is simplest transitority. I want you the first-class of good fortune. Btw, it is helping to open up and vent many times. That is helping to near up the hole of loneliness. Also, solitude is a way of peace, reverse from loneliness. Once you open up, you consider at peace with your self. Take care..
2016-09-01 10:54:11
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answered by erlene 4
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Your a very sweet lady. I'm sorry to hear you loss. Yes, we have all felt alone. At times the road ahead may seem bleak or the skies dark and gloomy. There is hope, and in time we all see it. But it takes a sweet lady as yourself to bestow blessings and encouragement to others as we tend to forget that other people experience the same emotions. I too have included blessings in my own prayers.
2006-11-11 07:09:07
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answered by Professor Bradley 3
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yes i often feel like i'm all alone in the world, even when i'm surrounded by my family! but i don't have that many real true friends in my life so there for no one to talk to! and i also don't have a boyfriend but i hope to find one soon, i know that even when i feel this way i'm not really alone becuase i still have my hope and my faith and the love of god!
2006-11-11 07:26:08
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answered by ♥musiclover♥ 4
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yea sometime i'm in a bad situation and i can't ask anyone for help because they won't understand me and i get afraid of what they might think and like no body cares and i'm so sorry to hear that your daughter died. i don'yt know how i'd feel if i lost a loved one but people come and go thats life
2006-11-11 07:10:42
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answered by mischa m 2
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I'm so sorry to hear about your daughter. Maybe if you talk about it to people you trust, it will be easier to cope. As for the all-alone-in-the-world "disease," everyone feels lonely sometimes. Just smile and think "Everyone loves me no matter if they're paying attention to me or not."
2006-11-11 07:09:01
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answered by a no no mouse 2
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Yes, there are many of us that have bad days dealing with loss. Sometimes we all need to just have somebody else around, even if we don't realy need conversation, just company. Good luck and best wishes.
2006-11-11 07:10:36
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answered by Barabas 5
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