Do you ever feel you are all alone in this world?
I don't at the time but have on occasion in the past when things got so rough I didn't feel able to cope so i just want to say to anyone out there that doesn't feel loved today I am sending my Love and prayers to you hang in there and things will get better. I Love You and so does God
my daughter was murdered 11 months ago and sometimes it's hard to cope and I'm sure we have all had bad days
2006-11-11 07:01:08 · 12 answers · asked by katlady927 6 in Health ➔ Mental Health
my daughetr was shot and murdered by her BF during an argument 12/08/05 the only peaceful thing about that is she didn't suffer long 38 minutes and I had saw her about 8 hours before and received an I love you mom and a hug and kiss which was Gods way of giving me something to hold onto
2006-11-11 07:08:05 · update #1
she was 28
2006-11-11 07:08:39 · update #2
Yes, I think everyone does at some point in their lives. I see you have posted this question several times so I know you are in a really bad place right now.
I'm very sorry to hear of the tragic loss of your daughter. I can relate to you so well because I have lost two of my own children, a daughter and son both. My daughter was stillborn in 2002 and my son was premature in 2003, he lived for 2 days with the help of machines but died in my arms after they convinced me to unhook the machines. For me, it's the guilt that is eating me alive. What if I had gone to a different doctor? Why didnt I take it easier during the pregnancies? Why in the h*ll did I let them convince me to unhook the machines??!.... I have not been the same since, nothing seems to matter or worth any effort on my part. You arent really "living", you're just "existing", right?
I have found that it helps to talk about it, even if that only means writing out your feelings where no one will ever see it unless you want them to. I have found several support groups for bereved parents online that allow you to post stories, picture, even chat with others about what you're going through; that has helped a lot.No one should have to endure losing their child, that just isnt the way its suppose to be. I wish you the best and if you ever need to talk please know that I am here! Take care of yourself and remember that your daughter is watching over you. I love you too.
2006-11-11 08:10:49 · answer #1 · answered by dee 1 · 3⤊ 0⤋
I'm feeling that way right now, and I've been feeling like this for a week now. Its crazy! Well, I know the drill, how to get out of it, and all that, but its hard these days. Thank you for your prayers, and I will do my best to get out of it. I keep trying to tell myself that my situation cannot be worse than some other person, that I need to make myself available to that person, that maybe someone else needs my help...So I try to learn from whatever mess is making me feel this way and then move on. ITS HARD. Still, I know that no matter what, I'm going to wake up tomorrow and smile, and tell my friends (who love meeting me for advice) "it can't be that bad... just think-it could have been worse..." just like yours.. I've never experienced what you have gone through, yet I am ungrateful enough to say I have problems. I'm sorry. *hugs*!
Thank you for reaching out to others even when you feel bad... God bless!
2006-11-11 07:12:55 · answer #2 · answered by blueheartz 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
I felt alone before, especially after a break-up. That's perfectly normal. It also depends on the situation in your life. For instance, if you live in an area you don't affiliate yourself with, it can really feel lonely. But, if you have friends and family you can rely on, that loneliness is only temporary. I wish you the best of luck. Btw, it helps to open up and vent sometimes. That helps to close up the gap of loneliness. Also, solitude is a sense of peace, opposite from loneliness. Once you open up, you feel at peace with yourself. Take care..
2016-05-22 05:36:17 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I feel like I am alone a lot. I feel like maybe I am so different from everybody else, I may not be able to survive.
I am so sorry about your daughter. I hope you are coping better! I hope her lovely bf suffered serious concequinces!!
2006-11-11 07:15:43 · answer #4 · answered by ♥Charming's Princess♥ 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
yes i feel that way at times also, but have never lost a child. i am so sorry for your loss, and just take it one day at a time. my thoughts are with you. could you find some kind of support group to help you cope during the bad times? i wish you the best of luck.
2006-11-11 07:10:05 · answer #5 · answered by jo 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
very so sometimes i think why am i alone. then i go to bally's and meet people best way to meet people by working out.
I pray to god jesus everyday. for my family, for my life,
praying also help people the lose a loved one. your if you have anixtey god help you people may not believe in god. because there are some people in this world that dont. but i do and he helps me.
relaxing is best way to cope with angry and anixtey
2006-11-11 07:30:24 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
Your so sweet to give your heart to others. My heart goes out to you for the loss of your daughter. "Tunnel vision" seems so lonely, especially when you really aren't aware your in the tunnel. But we all need to hold on, because our life's can change to the better in seconds! We just need to try and keep the faith! Your a fine example to US all! Thank-you!!
2006-11-11 07:18:52 · answer #7 · answered by sue d 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
I always feel alone, then I'm paranoid and feel like everyone is watching me so I can't make a mistake!
I'm sorry to hear about your daughter. Umm if you don't mind me asking, how was she killed and how old was she?
Stay strong!
2006-11-11 07:03:59 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 2⤊ 0⤋
I am so sorry to hear about your daughter. You have my prayers.
I do get like that sometimes. Feel as if noone really cares about me,..Feel as if I died today noone would notice,secluded
But when I almost lose it I get myself together and raise my chin up high
2006-11-11 07:07:38 · answer #9 · answered by Dana A 3 · 2⤊ 0⤋
I am sorry to hear that. But yes, I do feel that way sometimes. Hang In there! :]
2006-11-11 07:03:28 · answer #10 · answered by I ♥ Kurt Cobain 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋