I don't like commitment or afraid of it I don't know. is there solution for it?
2006-11-11 06:38:40 · 11 answers · asked by during 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
I used to be but I just decided to take a chance,now I'm in a committed relationship and it's great.
2006-11-11 06:43:36 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
Therapy can help. Most people I know are afraid of commitment. There are too many examples of broken relationships around any given person to have any kind of confidence in committing. In this day and age I think the fear of commitment is actually healthy.
2006-11-11 14:46:12 · answer #2 · answered by sexmagnet 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I've been that way for ever.It's just a matter of finding the person you can tolerate and a person willing to compromise and who understands that 90% of the time you wont like each other at first.It gets a heck of a lot better. Especially when you see the crap that everybody else goes through.Besides the single scene will get boring anyway.
2006-11-11 14:49:59 · answer #3 · answered by sayithere2004buddy 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I'm not afraid of commitment. Life is short so the sooner you find someone the longer you can spend time and be happy with your life.
2006-11-11 14:43:31 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Everyone to a degree I think. But to pass up someone you would even think to commit to tells me that the person has opened your eyes in such a nice way. And if they turn out to not be acceptable in your eyes then you deal with it. Always honor yourself.
2006-11-11 14:46:46 · answer #5 · answered by bountyhunter101 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Yep there is counseling, for some reason something happned to you that has made you build this wall up around you so that noone can get close to you, and you need to learn to tear that wall down and let someone into your life that will be able to love you.
2006-11-11 14:41:57 · answer #6 · answered by melissa052572 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
well,im in therapy right now for that reason. iwas married and really loved this man and still do but just in my heart.i believe people use the word love very loosely these days.lets see...when i was married igot hooked on drugs,was cheated on,on numerous occassions,went to jail etc...we have a beautiful daughter,i have raised her.there is a guy persuing me right now and its freakin me out..all that said,i have a great therapist and im getting thru it.it is hard though,i feel ya!!
2006-11-11 14:46:52 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
You just dont want to take the responsibilty of being a man or a woman its time to stop playing games and be real
2006-11-11 14:43:02 · answer #8 · answered by anenabanana_06 1 · 0⤊ 1⤋
yeah find yourself a good person to settle down with.oops I'm already takin
2006-11-11 14:42:52 · answer #9 · answered by ///\oo/\\\ 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Only one www.fling.com you are going to be attraction as a virgin.
2006-11-11 14:41:50 · answer #10 · answered by Toto 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋