i have a crush on a girl in my class in college and she lives nearby my house . So we both commute together. We are good friends and hang out together (Along with my two other friends). We are a group. Recently she got a sniff that i like somebody from one of my friend(by mistake). Now she kept on asking about name of the person i like the whole time we were together. Now how can i tell her i like nobody but her!! as i ve just sufferred a rejection from another girl from school, and i do not know exactly if she feels for
me, and i might not break our good lovely friendship if she rejects me!!!
2006-11-11 06:37:32 · 15 answers · asked by metallixan 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
well this is a tough one....
i say go for it, if shes yoru friend she will understand even if she doesnt feel the same and hopefully she will want to stay freinds, and if you are lucky, maybe she will ]feel the same way about you. but you can never live your life in fear, if you are afraid to take a chance, that might just be the biggest thing you are missing out on.
good luck i hope it works out for you!!
2006-11-11 06:43:32 · answer #1 · answered by mary j 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Depends...what's the actual problem with it? Is the crush itself inappropriate or does the problem lie in trying to determine how to reveal it to the person? Well, if the crush itself is directed towards someone that's inappropriate (e.g. a teacher, superior or a married person), definitely don't pursue it. Trouble...with a capital "T". However, if it's a matter of how to reveal the secret crush, just sit casually with the person and say anything like..."You want to hear something pretty interesting?... I find you rather nice and attractive...Also, I think I might possibly be developing feelings for you." Then just sit back and observe the person's reaction and response. It may feel a bit awkward but that's the best way to do it. At least that's the way I'd handle it. Bottom line...just do whatever comes to you naturally.
2016-05-22 05:32:48 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
It's worth the risk. Tell her. You're going to regret it if you never find out if she feels the same or not. But if she's under 17yrs old she may be confused of who she likes. You did say you guys go to college together so she must be old enough to understand her feelings...kind of. So yeah, go for it. Tell her how you feel. If she rejects you, atleast it's easier to live with than to not know if she's the one or not. Right?
2006-11-11 06:41:44 · answer #3 · answered by Lisa2006 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Love is risky. You have to take a chance on being rejected, or she will end up going out with someone else. If this were your last day on earth, what would you do? You would tell her how you feel. Live like it's the last day!
2006-11-11 06:40:22 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Just turn around the next time she asks and say "actually its you" if she starts laughing or goes oh no I dont feel like that or be's really negative then you have the option of saying "I was only joking, thats what you get for being so nosey" and then leave it at that, "if she smiles, hides her face behind her hand and goes all coy, or even smothers you in kisses then you know your in there"
What have you got to loose?
2006-11-11 06:42:16 · answer #5 · answered by Jo. 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You never know, since she keeps asking about the name of this "girl", she might be hoping it's her...this has happened to me. I kept asking details about her and guessing...it was fun, especially when he kept describing her. Don't be shy or worry about what could happen...just go for it! All the best!
2006-11-11 06:48:25 · answer #6 · answered by oxEmmaxo 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Don't give straight answer. First try to find out how much she likes you. Ask her what would happen if it was someone close.
2006-11-11 06:41:58 · answer #7 · answered by netwalker01 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i think that you should tell her the truth, because if she is really interested in who you like, that just shows that she cares about you. it better to know if someone likes you back that to always be wondering.
2006-11-11 06:45:20 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
just tell her how much you like her and ask her how she feels about you and if she says that she just wants to be your friend then just be her friend
2006-11-11 06:44:36 · answer #9 · answered by cherry 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
she keeps asking you cos shes hoping you say its her!
just tell her and get on with taking your relationship further.
why waste aby more time?
2006-11-11 06:44:38 · answer #10 · answered by graemekennedy1973 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋