ok so theres this kid he's 18 and i'm 16 he has the biggest crush on me and he is in college! he told me to e-mail him should i? we've known each other for a long long time! since were little lol!
2006-11-11 06:36:58 · 34 answers · asked by HoTtIe_WiTh_a_BoDy 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
ok he is a good person. like LDS! and he would never have sex with anyone before he married them. and plus he leaves on his mission next year and i'm scared that if we start something now i'll have to write a dear john letter!
2006-11-11 06:48:56 · update #1
not always i am a guy and i would date a girl i like if she was under age with out wanting sex especially if i knew her forever
but you need to make sure thats what it is tell him to wait when it comes to sex
2006-11-11 06:38:00 · answer #1 · answered by Talking Hat 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
properly, considering you're an grownup it is completely high-quality thus far plenty older adult adult males. Bo Derek replaced into sixteen whilst she married a 40 six 12 months previous guy. yet once you have been 15, i'd place the decrease at 10 years older, and in case you have been 14 or youthful the decrease would be even smaller than that (like some years older at maximum). i'm 28 and if I enjoyed a sixteen 12 months previous female adequate, I in all probability would date her (do no longer complication, sixteen is the age of consent the place I stay).
2016-12-10 07:11:38 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
You seem unsure and even though he's only 2 years older, he's at college and experiencing a different time in his life. Perhaps you could keep it low-key, but if you do embark on a relationship with him remember he's older and don't let him pressure you to do anything you're not ready for. I don't mean to be judegmental, but at 18 and at college he may want to do things a 16 year old shouldn't do and be involved in other things you don't need to be pressurised into. Be careful, be sure and remember 2 years can make a big difference when someone is still at school and the other at college.
2006-11-11 06:42:11 · answer #3 · answered by star 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
What's wrong with e-mailing him? What makes you think he has a crush on you? Maybe he just likes the comfortable feeling of communicating with an old buddy. Those kinds of friendships are the best! And as far as saying he's "older" I guess technically that's true since you're 16, but don't stress it until somebody 11 years older than you starts making moves on you!
2006-11-11 06:41:03 · answer #4 · answered by oldyogi 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
hm? ask him 2 things, first ask him can he hold out for 24 months if yes kewl contact you then. second ask him if he would like to live in in a 6 X 9 space for say the next 60+months and drinking water exactly 18 inches from the stainless steel toilet he would be forced to crap in as well as his state assigned roommate, also he would have to sleep with a total stranger that has a foot infection and a loud snoring problem, and then ask him if he likes colored water (the warden calls it koolaid) and does he really like the taste of assholes and elbows of slaughterd hogs (the warden calls it baloney) and claims it is a healthy diet. Then he will wake up if not
tell him there a Y number waiting for him!
ps he wont have to worry about purchasing designer clothes the state will provide those free of charge!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!
2006-11-11 07:01:12 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well... he's apparently out of town. Maybe he's just trying to set up home-town booty calls for when he's home on breaks.
Why didn't he hook up with you when he lived near you. Gotta wonder what took him so long.
See him if you want (when he's home) but under no circumstances should you have an exclusive relationship with him if that means a "long distance" relationship.
You're too young to have to set at home on the weekends because your b-friend is away at college.
2006-11-11 06:42:05 · answer #6 · answered by Yinzer from Sixburgh 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Ok, when you graduate from High School and receive your High School diploma you can date him. Meanwhile you may e-mail eachother to get to know eachother more. But please don't ever be in a room alone with him. Fight the temptation of being alone with him. Stay away from him if you discover he only wants sex. Men do lie and say, "I love you." In reality they're saying, "I want you." It's definately not the same thing. Wish you well.
2006-11-11 06:45:29 · answer #7 · answered by Lisa2006 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Hey, A LOT OF GUYS ARE OLDER THAN YOU...DOES THAT MEAN YOU LIKE THEM ALL? NO!
Get a little grip on reality and have a little control in YOUR OWN LIFE! Wait until you are 22, is that guy at 24 going to be THAT FABULOUS do you think?
Does NOT MATTER, just about wherever you go, as long as YOU THINK IT IS ATTRACTIVE to have an older guy, THE OLDER GUYS WILL FIND YOU...
2006-11-11 06:43:56 · answer #8 · answered by SmartAlec 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
What do you feel about him? If you really like him and want to talk to him , email him. Relationship are better if you know someone for a while and it looks like you both have that down pretty good. For now just talk and be friends and see what happens, it may just stay friendship, but you might more into something else you both may like. Good Luck
2006-11-11 06:41:29 · answer #9 · answered by kevin T 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
2 years is not that big of an age difference. If you have known each other since you were younger, you could probably develop a good strong relationship.
2006-11-11 06:41:07 · answer #10 · answered by tashatactics 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
he doesn't just want sex! go out with him - call him whatever could develop into great relationship. I just married my gf and she is 7 years younger!!! Age is just a number - as long as it feels right and is safe go for it!
PS - your two young for a 23 yr old but when your 23 and he's 30 its a big difference...you only talking a couple years no big deal at your age.
2006-11-11 06:44:38 · answer #11 · answered by amethyst_intrepid 1 · 1⤊ 0⤋