i didnt quite believe e term 'leapard doesnt change its spot' towards cheating. but something happened n it made me start to think that way.
i just want to know, be it u've cheated on someone be4? or u know someone who has cheated on their gf/bf. can they really change n kick that bad nature? tell me live examples.
2006-11-11 06:22:04 · 6 answers · asked by wallybelly 3 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
I do believe that history repeats itself. A good friend of mine who is 56 years old is currently seeing a woman 32 years old (that's another story). Anyways he is well known among his group to act pretty juvenile at times and while dating one woman always has his eyes on the lookout for better looking or better placed woman in social circles. Once he gets his claws into the other then he will dump the female he is currently seeing and move on to his next victim (did I say that out loud, er I mean conquest.) He argues that this is not cheating but I in return say that it is as he is not being faithful to his partner while they are together as he is not giving 100% to any relationship by always looking out for who's next. Your term of the leopard changing it's spots or mine of history repeating itself are both valuable lessons that we need to learn from. Can a person change? I would say certainly they can if they put enough energy and time into wanting to do so. But if a person does not 100% know if they want to or not then they will repeat same process of cheating again in my humble opinion.
2006-11-11 06:34:39 · answer #1 · answered by crazylegs 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Okay here's your example. There was a girl I liked. I knew she had cheated before on past bfs, but she claimed to have changed. I could even tell a difference. So we dated. It went good for about 2 months and then I found out she was talking to and texting this one guy. Eventually they were seeing each other and I was left alone. It sucked. Anyway, turns out me and the guy are friends now. He didn't know she was dating me at the time. The same thing happened to him and she continues to break hearts. So the point is, although some may really be able to kick the habit, in my case cheating still rose its ugly head in the relationship. My advice is just find you a good partner who doesn't have any history of it. If something's meant to be, not to sound gay, but you'll fall in love.
2006-11-11 06:30:37 · answer #2 · answered by J 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i understand he sucks vast time. he's this style of jerk. yet i'm hoping you supplies you him a slack for as quickly as. you're nevertheless youthful and there is countless opportunities you will stumble upon him or his acquaintances later. you do not prefer to be remembered as somewhat** who's nasty and evil. may well be sometime he might become your boss or something. So, it may come back and hang-out you later. Or he ought to retailiate and talk all trash approximately you when you humiliated him. Take a greater robust street, study this lesson and discover somebody greater effective and first rate. Make your self happy and be sucessful is the biggest revenge you may get. circulate to college, do your suitable and then become his boss sometime and supply him the hell of a time then.
2016-11-23 15:50:57 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
People I know who cheat, will always cheat, then they turn around and gripe about how trashy other people are.
2006-11-11 06:26:29 · answer #4 · answered by kayef57 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I do not think they ever change.My cheating ex-husband never did.
2006-11-11 06:27:59 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
i have cheated before, but i do not think its an inborn iclination. would I do it again? yes, maybe.
2006-11-11 06:31:50 · answer #6 · answered by Angry Insightful Black 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋